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Why am I not getting pregnant even after 6 months of Intercourse?

asked Feb 6 in Questions by Doubtful (120 points)

I am 28 years old and married. We started intercourse 6 months ago. Still I am not pregnant.

Now I am having doubts whether we are doing it correctly. I didn't bleed the first time we had sex. Does it mean thaat I have still did not lost my virginity? But intercourse is still painful.

Pls someone guide me.
commented Feb 7 by Motilal (9,740 points)
You know better whether you lost virginity or not...

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You Profile says that you have been married 2 years ago. But your question says that you started intercourse 6 months ago. Was there some reason for the delay in having intercourse?

Though you may have been married for 2 years, 6 months of intercourse is not really a long time for getting pregnant. Sometimes pregnancy can happen the first time you have intercourse and sometimes it takes much longer. There is really no scientific explanation for this and it is just one of the wonders of Nature.

You need not bleed the first time you have intercourse as your hymen could be broken due to many reasons like using tampons during your periods, strenuous exercises, masturbation etc. You can read about this in our Articles posted here. Just type hymen break in the SEARCH Box on the right.

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Do you still get pain during sex? If your husband indulges in sufficient foreplay and you are well lubricated then there should not be any pain in your vagina. You could try the cowgirl riding position instead of the traditional missionary position. Here he will lie on his back and you ride him, so that you can control how deep you want his penis in your vagina.

If you still do not conceive after a year of intercourse, it is advisable to see your Gynaec who will advise you the best course of action.

Stress also plays a negative part. Just enjoy sex and do not worry about pregnancy. It will happen.
answered Feb 7 by longhands1 (93,025 points)
commented Mar 30 by longhands1 (93,025 points)

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It is not too late.Don't get concerned about getting pregnant.Continue unprotected sex on unsafe days in deep penetration postures.After completion of sex act never run to wash vagina after sexual intercourse.Semen should be fully absorbed by vagina.Doctor may be consulted after one year.
answered Feb 7 by Motilal (9,740 points)
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# Six months only. Then why worry and hurry?  Enjoy more time without a baby.
#If you do sex on day to day basis - soon it will happen. To be successful, only matra is Practice, Practice and Practice.
answered Feb 7 by solliadi (5,140 points)
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It's really bad not having a baby, in my career I have seen many cases likes this, Your issue may be because of many reasons.
Firstly, Bleeding in first intercourse in not compulsory 90% of cases females won't bleed all time. The reason why a woman bleed is the hymen, It would  may be broken in many ways before penetration like while cycling, skipping etc.,
Now coming to your problem not having a baby after 6 month intercourse, It's not about time some may be convinced in just a 10 day intercourse or may be longer too.
Not having a baby may have many reasons like ED(Erectile Dysfunction), Fertility issue, Sperm count etc.,
I want some info when your are doing you intercourse(fertile period), Did you practiced any Birth Control methods before.
Else you may better consulting a gynic may solve your problem.

Good Day
answered Feb 7 by abhi14343 (1,915 points)
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Try having sex daily for a month and see if that works. Also keep a pillow underneath hips after his ejacuation. If that doesn’t work consult a doctor.
answered Feb 7 by PhoenixBoy (300 points)
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some women get pregnant after single intercourse and some needs more time.

if you are trying from last 6 months and still not able to get pregnant then you should try these steps.
1) try getting pregnant from sex for 2-3 months. means do normally as you are doing now but increase the frequency. like sex after every 3-4 days.

2) visit doctor specially a gynecologist. sometime there are some issues  to get pregnant, with doctors help you can find your problem if any and can cure it within time.
answered Feb 8 by Harsh.03 (1,240 points)
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Hi Doubtful
Certain style or angles on sex improve the chance of getting concieved. Ex using a pillow below the buttocks and keeping your man on you will improve the chance of sperm directly deposited much closer to the eggs in you which meet results into your pregnancy all the best play hard
answered Feb 9 by maximos7 (300 points)
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For getting pregnant, Ur husband needs to fuck Ur pussy.
He  may be fucking Ur ass or any other small whole (coz u said intercourse is painful).
Ask him to insert his dick at the right whole, between Ur legs.
answered Feb 9 by arjun.masti1 (210 points)
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Go to any doctor and ask him/her to check if you both are health and fertile so that you both are sure that you both are capable if that goes fine then you can try to increase frequency of you session to daily in order be pregnant.
answered Feb 9 by myselfarun (2,015 points)
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My wife is 4 months pregnant now after 3-4 months trying.

Inbox me if I could help you regarding this.
answered Feb 12 by cumon (250 points)
edited Feb 13 by longhands1
commented Feb 13 by longhands1 (93,025 points)

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