1.You are correct, in lovemaking intimacy as well as sex is important.
2.Like male, sex is important for female, whether he marries, divorcee, widow or virgin.
3.Anal, blow job depends on how she was brought up / upbringing - whether he marries, divorcee, widow or virgin. Divorces do happen because of unusual demand of anal sex type by first husband.
Now the important thing:
1.Women are emotional animals.
2.Divorced males are always looked down with suspicion.
3.In comparison, Widowers command respect.
In Indian context,
1.Divoreced ladies marrying a virgin male of their age group, are happy lots. Divorced ladies, having experience of bitterness, know well how to adjust to the second husband. Added to that theywant to prove the society.
2.Widow with kids have different priority. Men try to avoid the additional responsibilty. Widows will take time to come to terms, as they wonder the reason for marrying her.
3.Victims are economically disadvantaged unmarried girls.
Yes, Divorced males are always looked down with suspicion.