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My GF had many Sex Partners. She wants me to fuck her without comdom. What to do?

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asked Oct 11 in Questions by Svkhanna (170 points)
edited Oct 13 by longhands1

I am back to AskAnjali after a long time.

I have a GF. She is from Madhya Pradesh. She is 26 years old. I am from Jammu and 19 years old. We were deeply in love (at least I thought so). After a year of relationship, we meet last year in Delhi and stayed at a lodge. We had sex for 2 full days without condom.

Then after two months she started ignoring me. I found out that she was living with a Guy in Bhopal. When I asked her, she said that the Guy is paying all her fees and expenses for Study. She was studying for D. Pharma. She had to have sex with him in return. She said that she thought the Guy will marry her, but he began abusing her and treating her like a call girl.

Now she has left him and we have patched up. She says that she will come to Jammu and marry me in July 2019. Presently, she is staying in Rewa, about 10 hours from Bhopal and is working at some Hospital. She has taken a room on rent and stays alone. She wants me to come there and stay with her for 4-5 days and have sex with her without condom.

My worry is that she had sex with that Guy without condom.  What if I get some STD or HIV if I have sex with her without condom? She says she gets pain if her sex partner uses condom. I want to become a soldier and join the Army. Will they be able to find out in any medical test?

My friends say that I should not go as that girl cannot be trusted and she broke my trust last time. They are telling me to call her to Jammu, but I know she will not come.   

Guys, tell me what to do.  Can I trust her? I know she had many sex partners in Delhi also. Is there any tablet or treatment to get rid of STD or other sexual disease?

I had got 90% in 10th class but got only 60% in 12th due to all these problems.

Please give me your Advice.

 

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Hello Khanna,

Going by your description, looks like you are an emotional person and she's a very practical person. If you continue with her, you'll only end up being hurt by her decisions. Unless you are ok with the idea of her sleeping around, i dont think you should go ahead with her. Don't let her fool you. You just started your sexual life, You'll get more girls in the years to come.

Regards,
Sadiq
answered Oct 13 by sadiq_khan (1,060 points)
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SV Khanna
1.You are 19 and She is 26.
2.You cannot marry her now and also in July 2019.
3.You know that She had many sex partners.
4.By Going to Rewa, you are not going to achieve anything other than 4 days of sex with her. Other hand, both of you re-establish your relationship.This is unwarranted now.
5.Appreciate you that you are clear in becoming a soldier and serve the nation.
6.I suggest that do not hear your friends also i.e calling her to Jammu.
7.First become a soldier, and see the world. Let her marry someone as she is already 26.
answered Oct 13 by solliadi (3,165 points)
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Love is not all about sex. Sex is not life, it is just a part of life. It seems she keeps her relationship with you to fulfill her sexual needs. I may wrong. Think about your future first & act accordingly. Look she used that guy, as she has to complete D pharma & her goal is over. Tell her to wait till you get your dream come true. If you think she is not faithful to you & have multiple partners, better to dump her.
answered Oct 13 by Happy Saint (475 points)
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You are immature you have to decide and understand that how.important that girl is for you.
I will advise you not to bother to much and there is nothing serious just go there have sex but without condom comeback and now you start ignoring her. If she really care about you will try to get your attention if not leave her.
answered Oct 13 by myselfarun (1,850 points)
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It sounds that she is not good for your study as it affected your study badly so anything that affects your study should not be in your life. Moreover, your friends are right that she cannot be trusted and it sounds that she can have sex with anyone for the money and that too without condom so be careful while having sex with her.

Even if you decide to have sex with her then you should ask her to get some tests done to check whether she is affected with any STD or not. You should not compromise with your health so be clear to her about that even if she feels bad.

I would say find a new girl with whom you can see your future. Do you want to marry a girl who had sex with a guy for the money? Don’t you think that you deserve a better partner than her?
answered 5 days ago by alpesh kapdi (27,745 points)

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