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Can I set my life right by marrying my Nephew?

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asked Oct 5 in Questions by sheena180288 (120 points)
edited Oct 6 by longhands1

Hello,

I am Nima, 36 years old. I got married 2 years ago. My Husband settled outside India and does not want to live with me.

I know this may sound like an AA story, but every word is true. Please read about my problems and give me your suggestion with proper dedication. It's my humble request.

Since my husband left me, I started to live with my nephew. He lives alone as he has no parents. I am attracted towards him and he cares for me and treats me like his wife. We began to love each other and finally we had sex.

Now, I am legally separated from my husband. My Nephew and I had been to Goa recently for a holiday and we enjoyed our honeymoon. He is 30 year old. Now he wants to marry me.

Should I go for it or enjoy only sex with him. We have no relative issues.

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Hii
First Divorce your Husband who is not interested in living with you
And Then marry your nephew because you both are ready and you don't relatives problems in marrying him
It's Good you both love each other and it's not Problem in marrying him
answered Oct 6 by pavan350 (1,440 points)
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Sheena, Though you want to marry him but does he want to marry you? Or al he wants is a sexual fling?
So first discuss this with him. Because in. love everything looks good but with. marriage comes responsibilities and commitment!
As it is you already have burnt your fingers so now at least take precautions and do not make a hasty decision.
As of now your sexual needs are getting fulfilled.But see how compatible you emotionally are.
Take.informed decision.
answered Oct 6 by prashant69 (7,245 points)
commented Oct 8 by sheena180288 (120 points)
He really wants to marry me. Sex is not the matter now. I have given my all to him.
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sheena,

I don't understand your hesitation. Is it the age factor? or is it about Society? You cannot control what others think, so just ignore them. You said that you have no relative issue. This is good as sometimes Relatives can be a pain and are worried only about what others will say about them....they don't care about your Life.

Your Trump Card is that you have obtained divorce. Check with a Lawyer if all your papers are in order. You now have your freedom to decide your own life.

Since you have spent a pre-marriage honeymoon with your nephew, you would know if you both are compatabile. In that case, why hold back and if you both love each other then go ahead. I do not think Law will have an issue in blood relations marrying, but medically there can be an issue.

Modern medicine has however advanced so much that even having children may not be a problem. But this you should speak to your doctor, who will guide you.

Best of Luck in whatever decision you take.
answered Oct 6 by longhands1 (85,850 points)
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Hi ,
There is absolutely no issue In your marriage.
You are legally divorced & have every right to enjoy your life.

So move on & enjoy !
answered Oct 6 by DCSB (540 points)
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Hi Nima !

If you trust him and you think what your nephew has for you is pure love and not just lust then go for it. You mentioned that you don't have relative issues and you're legally separated from your husband then there shouldn't be any doubts.

But as I said, make sure its love that results in a marriage cause lust is like a smoke, it is there for sometime and then  it vanishes.

All the best for your future!
answered Oct 6 by gr8gaur (2,565 points)
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Yeah just enjoy your rest life with your nephew. Why asking you two are happy what else you need
answered Oct 6 by rahulsngh (905 points)
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Sheena
1.You are legally separated from your husband.
2.Your nephew lives alone and he has no parents. Is he son of your elder sister or son of your elder brother.
3.Your age is 36 and his age is 30. The age difference of 6 is OK.
4.You do not have any relative issues. In some communities, marrying one's sister son is acceptable. That is father marrying elder sister and son marrying the younger sister.
5.You both love each other. Do not delay further. Marrying and having children at the earliest is the priority for you considering your age 36.
answered Oct 7 by solliadi (3,210 points)
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If want to cut off your relationship with your relatives as they may disapprove it, you can marry him. If relatives don't have issue with your marriage, nothing to ask anyone.
answered Oct 9 by Happy Saint (480 points)
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Just change your religion for legal point of view & go ahead,if you both have been crossed all limits then there is no question about this
answered Oct 9 by S Saxena (150 points)
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If you have no relatives issues then marry him as it sounds that you both love each other and he is the right man for you. There is no issue legally and socially you both can handle it so go for it and make him your life partner by marrying him as this way you can keep having sex without worrying about anything.
answered Oct 11 by alpesh kapdi (27,770 points)

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