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Are extra marital affairs right or wrong?

asked May 2 in Questions by dr kalyan (465 points)
recategorized May 15 by longhands1
Hi members,

I am following this site since years. I have read number of questions and answered a few questions to the best of my ability.

I have not been able to understand whether having an extra marital is right or wrong? Is enjoying sexual life in young age in multiple ways - right or wrong?

Tell me your views.

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I'm following your questions from long time.

nothing is wrong or right. beauty is in the eye who is looking. some say ema is wrong and ema is good.
question is where you stand today.

as you previously mentioned that your interest is on decline side for your wife.
but I suggest that you both need to have a conversation about this.  you both need to evaluate what you need and what you get.
if your wife is okay for you having ema then no problem.

and I have seen few cases that after some time of marriage after having kids and getting well settled couple who find that they unable to satisfy each other do ema on mutual consent. this helps them to spice up their life.

keep us updated so we can help you better
answered May 15 by Harsh.03 (1,025 points)
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My opinion it depends on each individual. If you look at society they will say it is wrong. However, as individuals we get to decide what is right and what is wrong.
Morally if we look at it as a whole yes it is wrong. But if you are married and having problems in your marriage after all talking and trying to resolve it and if it doesn't workout what can one do for emotional support or physical affection? We as South Asians can we easily divorce? Not only South Asians but any race divorce is messy.

My opinion is, extra marital affairs can be justified in circumstances. Thats why we see a lot of it out there.
answered May 15 by Asanka (530 points)
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If you are not happy with your relation even after trying everything than there is no harm in trying outside marriage. But should be brave enough to accept if your wife do it too so things purely depend on how broad-minded you are.
answered May 16 by myselfarun (1,790 points)
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EMA is good when you're the one cheating and bad when you're cheated on.
answered May 16 by gr8gaur (2,405 points)
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Dr Kalyan,

Hope you are doing good.

It all depends from person to person n socio economic background of the individual.

As a teenage girl I always dreamt of a Prince Charming, you would be my live for life.. but things started changing post joining my post graduation. With easy access to porn site n other stuff it added further fuel in me to explore the world of sin (although for me it's is the world of bliss)

It further got enraged post my marriage, n attitude of husband toward life n my professional environment.

So for us there us nothing called as extra martial affair, rather it is considered an act if being in open relationship.

But yes there was a time in my life the thought of extra martial affair would make me sick.

Do share your views

With love
Sexy Gudiya
answered May 16 by boldnsexy (1,145 points)
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If you need extramarital, the best solution is do spouse swapping or swinging with mutual agreement. Both the partners should be free and willing
answered May 17 by kunjumon57 (505 points)

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