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Why do I not enjoy Sex with my Chachi and present Girlfriend?

asked Mar 23 in Questions by akshay_mumbai24 (195 points)
edited Mar 25 by longhands1

I am 25 years old, male. I came to know about this Site about a year ago and I started looking for Answers to my Questions related to incest sex. I had an eye on my aunt (chachi). I posted my question here.

Because of all your Answers I was able to enjoy with my aunt. Whenever, we get a chance she gives me handjob, and allows me to press her boobs and grab her ass. I have even clicked her nude pictures. But till now we haven’t indulged in sex.

Actually now I don’t feel like having sex with her. In the heat of the moment, I feel like getting  a handjob from her, but later I feel guilty. For that moment, we both enjoy.

My Question is: Why don’t I feel like having sex with her?

3 years back. I had a break up with my GF and it took me around 2 years to get over this breakup.

Now since past 10 months, I am in a relationship with  a girl and she is really nice and loves me (But sometimes I feel like  do I really  love her?). She is a nice  girl and I have no problems with her. We do get intimate many times. She has called me to her place  5-6 times (as she lives with her parents), yet I have not had sex with her. We enjoy foreplay and she gives me handjob and lets me finger her vagina.

My Question here is : Why  do such questions comes to my mind? Do I really love her? Why  don’t I feel the same way  with her as I used to feel with my  ex-GF? 

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You should not try to compare your feelings with your ex and your current as that is not possible. When you were with your ex you were in the different situation and with your current you got mature and had some relationship experience and grew up so your expectations and feelings may be different.

You should focus on your current girlfriend since you yourself said that she is a perfect girl for you so focus on her. As far as your relationship with your aunt is concerned, you do not feel to have sex with her because you are getting enough satisfaction from the hand job so you are fine with it and it is normal but once you would have sex with her you will want only to have sex with her so taste her vagina and I am sure you want her vagina and not her hand around your penis.
answered Mar 24 by alpesh kapdi (24,335 points)
commented Mar 24 by akshay_mumbai24 (195 points)
You are right. I should focus on my present girlfriend and shouldn't compare my feelings.

And about not willing to to have sex with her, by the way that  pic is of my aunt.
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when you broke up with your ex you need some emotional support, which you try to get from your aunt. but what you get is not what you needed. that's why you aren't enjoying with your aunt.

now you have gf and you should concentrate on her now.
answered Apr 24 by Harsh.03 (845 points)

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