Hi Every one,
Thanks to all the AA Members for all the answers for my previous questions.
I am Kiran kumar, aged 28, married to my relative who is 19 years. We are happily leading our married life since our wedding, four months ago. We both love each other.
She is very trust worthy in all matters and I am very happy. I am here to seek some suggestions on birth control. As my wife is very young age, we have decided to postpone having any kids. We are currently using condoms as precaution every time. Physically, we are very happy in bed.
After following AA Forum and general googling my opinion is:
Condoms, Copper T loop, Birth control pills, Removal method, safe days calculation are the most available methods for birth control,
Loop: On enquiry my family members, they have recommended not to go for loop method as her age is not good for this.
Pills: I believe there will be side effects with pills like irregular periods, heavy bleeding etc. so I do not prefer Pills,
Safe Days calculations: I understand the superb image posted by Anjali Madam some years ago about safe days, but still I am not taking risk. So I am using condoms on safe days too.
Withdrawal method: I feel it is very risky to control our excitement, so not following this method.
Condoms: From the beginning I am using only condoms even in safe days for tension free intercourse.
1) Am I doing the right way by using the condoms? My wife has no complaints, but sometimes she wishes to have intercourse without condom but due to pregnancy fear, I am not giving her that happiness. So what is the solution to make her happy?
2) If you recommend Pills, please suggest pill names and ways of using. I know AA Forum does not allow to name the brand, so please sent me an personal message for the pill names.
3) Sometimes, I ejaculate in few strokes, so to avoid this, I am masturbating once before two three hours of sex. Is it okay for maintaining long time erection? (I will try to practice Kegel exercise soon)
4) These days everybody is suffering with low sperm count. Is there any good diet for increasing sperms. Daily, I am eating Badaams and kismiss.
Please advice me how to stay long in bed and to make my wife happy. I love my wife, so I want to give her much happiness.