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Should I stop meeting my freind?

asked Dec 21, 2017 in Questions by kapswat (130 points)
edited Dec 29, 2017 by longhands1


I am 33 years old, married man, happy with my wife and kid. However, I have a special and close friend and we have no boundries in our talks.

She used to ask me lots of questions related to sex. We got closer and had sex a couple of times. I was trying to avoid her for last few months. However we started meeting again and had some cozy moments at her home though I didnt have sex.

Shoud I stop meeting her? I feel bad and guilty for my wife.

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If you are happy with your wife, then yes you should stop seeing her.

Although try your best not to let her feel you just used her for sex.
answered Dec 27, 2017 by Donalddefoe (230 points)
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Who is your friend? What is her age? What about her family? Is She married or unmarried? How you mer her? Little elaboraton will help you to get some good answers to your question.
answered Dec 27, 2017 by solliadi (2,295 points)
commented Dec 27, 2017 by kapswat (130 points)

We met on a Matrimonial platform before my marriage. We became good friends and have remained friends since last 5 years.

She is 28 years and an IT professional. She is unmarried till date.
commented Dec 27, 2017 by Tanzeel (245 points)
Please elaborate on what you mean by cozy moments. Then we can advise you better.
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If you are leading happy married life and sexual life then you should avoid meeting the lady which you are having extra martial affair. It is not good for both husband and wife

Your wife believes you. Don't betray her for a lady who just wants sexual pleasures from you.
answered Dec 28, 2017 by pavan350 (1,140 points)
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Hi kapswat,

In one word, stop immediately. Your wife and children don't deserve this. The woman you are calling your ' close friend' is not a friend at all. I will call her your 'close enemy'.

Friend is a person who has the willingness to sacrifice his / her life for friends. In your case, she is causing to destroy your married life. Because of this kind of relationship, these days divorce rate is too high. Ultimately your kids will pay the price.

Your are not only an adult but also a husband and a father, so act like an one.
answered Jan 4 by Kitkatray (355 points)
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It seems that  your wife cannot satisfy you (or for that matter you do not understand her sexuality) - hence your relationship with this woman. If you feel it is quite safe to continue your friendship with her then go on as you both are quite open and free about discussing intimate matters and already had sex with her. In my view there is no
harm having consensual sex between two persons, even this might enrich your married life. But take care against possibility of blackmailing by her!
answered Jan 12 by zena69 (1,825 points)

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