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I want to see my Widowed Mom happy. Will having sex with her make her happy?

asked Dec 9, 2017 in Questions by neilk45 (120 points)
edited Dec 10, 2017 by longhands1

I am 24 years old. I live with my Mom in Mumbai. She is 42 and a widow. I find my Mom very sexy and I want to have sex with her. Pleasse do not lecture me about the moral part.

She is a lecturer. I work for a law firm. I think she herself feels lonely as she has been a widow for 6 years. I dont know whether she has a boyfriend or not.

She hasnt said anything about having one. I want to have a very intimate relationship with her. I love her not just for sex but l really love her. That scares me a lot to express my feeling towards her fearing that I may lose her.

Help me.

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It's not easy to get her because you have not mentioned about her in detail like is she  desperate of men in her bed or she starved for sex etc

You have to first confirm whether she really wants you or not weather she is in such need of relationship with you

Your mom may be a widow that doesn't mean she is easy target take it seriously
answered Dec 10, 2017 by pavan350 (1,645 points)
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Hello Neilk45,

Since you have already mentioned that don’t lecture on moral part, so I will begin with a idea that you literally want to grab your mom's ass, want to squish her boobs and bite her nipple.

You must be wondering how her pussy smells and how it tastes. You must be wondering how will she moan when you will fuck her asshole. Well, since she is already 42 as well as a lecturer, she must be a very mature lady. So she will not get  convinced easily to have sex with her own son.

But since she is a widow, she also has a negative point. The age between 38 to 50 is very crucial age for women. During this age they have very high desire for sex and since she is deprived of getting sex, you can try your luck.

But the question is how?

Few solutions.

1. Have a direct talk with her...hahaha..that will be the stupidest idea in whole world.

2. Try to seduce her in best possible that your relationship with her does not become vulnerable. You should seduce her in such a way that it should look that you are doing it casually but that should excite her so much that she should feel helpless and lost in your thought so much that she feels compelled to masturbate thinking about your DICK.

Everyday you should do things differently and with confidence..things should be properly organized and you should have proper strategy.

Hope this helps.

Thank you.
answered Dec 10, 2017 by IGNACIO (490 points)
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Neilk 45,

Some things are sacred in this world. One of them is mother-son relationship. I don't know how you are able to think like this. You are 24 years that doesn't mean to you can do what ever you want.

Never think about mother in that way. Even animals have some manners. Where is your brain? You are one of most developed species (humans). Get some work, if you are working concentrate on it. Earn some money and fame. Then you will get everything that you want in your life.

If possible ask her. If she says ok, then  you can arrange a trusted man for your mom or she can find herself if she is in need of sex.

Never think of your mother in this way.

Thanking you
answered Dec 10, 2017 by Coolcracker420 (1,435 points)
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Hi neilk 45,

Do you know what is the problem in our Society? People use moral values a double standard word. You will see this in AA. People don't have any problems with EMA, sex with aunt, professor, teachers, brother-in-law, sister-in- law or married colleague. I would like to ask those people, where are your valuable words? Where are your moral values? Don't bend the rules as you want!

Now, coming to the main point. There is no problem having sex with your widowed mother as long as it is consensual. And you are single, so you can proceed.

As you don't know anything about her sexual lifestyle, I will suggest you first know her better. Try to be close to her. Share your life with her. If any point you come to know that she does not need sex at all, then don't disturb her.

I personally think that having sex with an unmarried son is far better than having sex with another man for a widowed mother as long as it is consensual.
answered Dec 10, 2017 by Kitkatray (355 points)
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Ask her directly. If that does not work, say sorry. A mother knows her child very well.
answered Dec 10, 2017 by solliadi (5,140 points)
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It appears that your mother got pregnant at the age of 17-18.May be minor,when she become pregnant.The age difference between you and your mother is 18.Check the records to find the reality.Never dig her past life.It is duty of a son to protect her mother.Remove your ill feelings about her.You are not a substitute of her husband.It may be someone else.
answered Dec 11, 2017 by Motilal (9,740 points)
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If you want to gain something then you should be ready to lose something as that is a normal thing so if you are not ready to lose her in process of your getting her under you then you should forget about the idea of having sex with her. Since she has not given you any hint that she wants an intimate relationship with you I think it is not an easy thing for you to express your feelings to her as that would back fire at you.

Start showing your interest in her indirectly and see how she reciprocates. If she feels good when you say her she is still sexy and you find her attractive then there are chances but if she takes it otherwise then I would say stay away from her otherwise you will end up losing your mom. Incest relationships do happen but not as claimed in some questions here and fake sex stories so beware.
answered Dec 11, 2017 by alpesh kapdi (28,960 points)
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Dear Neilk45,
You will not loose her in any case, as she is your mother.
If you really wanted to have sex with your mom, you probably can do if she allows. I don't find incest wrong, untill and unless both are happy. If you are able to satisfy your bodily needs within the home, its better and safer.
For this, either you can ask her directly or give her hint through your gestures that you like her body and wants her in your bed. Surely, you will get some way out of your desires.
answered Dec 12, 2017 by mukul_rusty (480 points)
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Hello Neil,
As per my experience, there are only two ways.

One: Suppress your feelings and think of your future.
Two: If above one is not possible, you will have to inform about your feelings to her.

Don't say directly that you want her body.. but say calmly that you like her a lot. You would like to marry a woman like you. I thought a lot about it and finally came to a conclusion that I want to marry you (In a serious tone). Then see her reaction. Since your mom is a professor,make her feel that you are not interested in her body and more interested in her companion ship, then it will work faster for you.

I understand your feelings bro..don't worry
answered May 25, 2018 by Ilovemumma (180 points)
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there is no point in this love in any angle since you have told about her beauty , love is blind not on beauty and you can find more beautiful ladies outside your family if your mind is saying she is the only one then you have no choice .

i will say since you love her not only for sex tell her to get married and live a happy life and you get her love without sex .

Otherwise if you dont what her to be happy with other man then you just tell whats going in your mind to her she will not reject you either she will educate you are she may live a sex life with you thats all.

take everything lightly in life and dont be too serious its the freedom of mind which makes him most happy in life not his doubts .
answered May 27, 2018 by Lifewithfreedoms (945 points)
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No need to do anything. She is Ur mother. If she requires anything, she would inform you
answered Mar 16 by arjun.masti1 (210 points)

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