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Article: Preview of a Book called "Lick by Lick" (Oral Sex on Women)

asked Dec 5, 2017 in Articles by longhands1 (78,285 points)

Preview of a Book called Lick by Lick (Oral Sex on Women)

Unusual techniques that give any woman multiple spine-tingling, electrifying, scream-your-name orgasms

A few years ago my good friend got married. When he came back from his honeymoon I teasingly asked how was the sex. He bragged about how when he went down on her she "moaned like a cougar in heat" and he was able to give her a full body O with his tongue multiple times. 

A few months later his wife (who I am also good friends with) asked if I would go get a coffee with her. She knows that I am a renowned sex expert and author and retold the honeymoon story a different way.

She said her husband’s oral technique was so uncomfortable that she did a "When Harry Met Sally" (a famous movie with a now classic fake orgasm scene) on him just to get him to stop. Now he wants to keep giving her oral and she is stuck faking enjoyment each time.

She was BEGGING me for help.

She said she did have one former lover who was fantastic at cunnilingus but all the others who went down on her were mostly unpleasant. She didn't want to crush Brian and wanted to know if there was a way that I as a sex expert could give him some pointers without letting him know she talked with me. She knew he would be HUMILIATED if he found out his oral lovemaking was horrible.

I decided that I would access the knowledge of my 100,000 subscribers who read my newsletters and I asked them to give very specific details and advice on what (in their personal experience) created the most enjoyable and pleasurable oral sex experience ON HER.

I was SHOCKED at the number of tips, ideas and deeply personal (and sometimes quite erotic) stories that flooded in. 

Women said that nothing came even close to the pleasures they got from being "eaten out" (if done the right way). They also said their most POWERFUL and EARTH-SHAKING orgasms were as a result of a man going down on her.

I also received a lot of emails from women saying that if a man was not a master of the lick, then the experience was not all that enjoyable and sometimes was quite uncomfortable for her. 

Several women made the comment in their emails that basically said "if she is not BEGGING you to go down on her then you aren't doing it right!". Women with multiple partners said only about 20% of the guys they were with were any good at "eating pussy".

Right then I decided to do extensive research and become a full fledged expert at cunnilingus so I could share the knowledge with all men so they wouldn't have potentially HUMILIATING and CRUSHING experiences.

In addition to compiling all the tips and suggestions from my readers I did a lot of technical and scientific research on the female anatomy, nerve endings, hormones and anything that can contribute to giving women the most outrageous of orgasms.

In my research I can across this study that said that less than 25% of women actually reach orgasm from vaginal sex. And 40% of women don't even enjoy vaginal sex AT ALL.

It was time for me to do my own "personal research". During lovemaking I slipped my head down between my wife's legs and tried out some of the tips and technique my subscribers had shared. 

I soon heard an "Oh WOW" from my wife. Clearly, she had never had this pleasure from me before.

After minutes of sighing and moaning and squirming with pleasure she broke out in a heavy sweat all over, arched her back and begged me to keep going. She said she had 4 orgasms in a row. Two is her typical max.

Giving her that experience was satisfaction enough for me but she wanted to return the favor and she lunged onto my manhood (she doesn't usually like giving blow jobs) and gave me the most wonderful head.

Now that I know how to lick her like a pro, 69 is one of her favorite positions.

Don't be so macho like most men and go through years of giving mediocre head because you think you know more than you do. Sure, you can spending years "practicing" to try to learn how to give fantastic oral pleasure but it is much easier to learn from the shared tips and ideas of others.

Look at these hard facts:

  • 81% of women reach orgasm from receiving oral sex*
  • 88% of married women prefer cunnilingus as their preferred sex act*
  • the clitoris has 8000 nerve endings ready for pleasure (twice the amount of the penis)*

That's right, 'going down' on women is the number #1 way to make her come.

However, the problem is…

Most men think any lick will do …WRONG!!

You're not licking an ice cream cone here! This is a complex and delicate operation.

With 8,000 nerve endings, you better know what you're doing or you could put her off getting oral sex all together, ruining your chance to prove that you can make her quiver with pleasure.

For example:

  • Do you know the 8 components of a woman's 'down stairs' and how to stimulate each one?
  • Do you know in what order and how long you should lick and caress each one?
  • And by using these combinations, do you know how to give women two different types of orgasms at the same time? (Yes, it's possible!)

Let's face it, while it just seems like it's all about licking, there's actually much more to it. You need to lick the right places, in the right order, for the right amount of time! And now you can learn all these secrets!…

"she was making noises I've never heard from

her in the 18 years of our marriage"

Thanks for your great work on the Lick by Lick guide. I've had erection problems for the past decade and my sexual self esteem had been shattered. Pills have not worked for me so I have been unable to give my wife orgasms.

– Mark S.

"Introducing… Lick By Lick"

In less than an hour you could be using my step-by-step guide to help give your lady a powerful orgasm unlike any she's ever had… starting immediately!

Frankly, whether you're a seasoned lover, rookie or a virgin it doesn't matter, you'll find this information valuable to help make this an experience she'll remember forever.

You'll learn…

  • How to break through her self-conscious barrier about cunnilingus and build trust to the point she's excited and looking forward to it! Warning: Most experts preach this wrong, and if you don't learn to do it right, she may never let you please her this way…Hint: it's not a shower, although this is good too! (Page 9)
  • How to encourage her to shower before cunnilingus WITHOUT offending her… gain peace of mind that she'll smell beautiful down there (page 11)
  • 10 little known tongue techniques to help her reach climax… don't be surprised if she screams out your name in ecstasy after using these (pages 51 - 58)
  • The one thing you should prepare long BEFORE cunnilingus… forget this and you may impede the orgasm and make your entire effort a waste! (page 32)

  • A BIG mistake guys make near climax that often leaves women disappointed and frustrated… Hint: it's got nothing to do with rhythm, slowing down or even changing what you're doing! (page 24)
  • Did you know that women can actually experience different types of orgasms? And they can actually have two orgasms at once? It's true. On page 62 you'll learn exactly what to do to make this a possibility and increase the chances of achieving two orgasms at THE SAME TIME!
  • The one thing you must NEVER do while performing cunnilingus… make this mistake and things could turn out very bad. It's actually very dangerous and most men (and women) don't know about it (page 49)
  • Why clitoral stimulation is actually PAINFUL for some women and the "secret" area that she'll probably enjoy having caressed instead… And no it's not the G-spot or the opening! (page 22)
  • Just lick the clitoris right? No! Here's the step-by-step guide on the 4 things you should stimulate on her genitals first (page 45 - 49)
  • How to convince her to shave or wax her pubic hair and 9 tips to perform the shave properly… enjoy silky-smooth skin as you please your woman (page 27, 29)
  • Your lady doesn't want to shave? Page 29 reveals how to make her pubic hair softer, which means no more red, raw and painful rashes! 

  • Women usually don't feel like sexual activity when they're stressed. Pages 38 reveals a great way to relax your lady that's even better than a hot bath or back massage and requires no preparation at all
  • The complete guide on how to stay safe against sexually-transmitted disease (pages 15 - 19)
  • The 3 forgotten female hot-spots that help maximize her experience and increase the chances of an orgasm (pages 41 - 44)
  • The area of the vagina that many women DON'T want licked… lick here and chances are she won't want you to perform cunnilingus for a long time (page 25)
  • 5 ways to almost INSTANTLY get her in the mood… enjoy cunnilingus and sex more often with this little secret (pages 35-37)
  • What eating dinner at a restaurant has to do with improving your lady's chances of reaching an orgasm. Hint: it has nothing to do with 'romance' or dining a woman. (page 57)
  • How to recognize and navigate the 8 components of the female genitalia with your tongue so you lick and caress the right places at the right time, giving her a more powerful and intense experience (page 20)
  • 6 tips to include your finger in the pleasure process and help her achieve an even more powerful orgasm. However, do this wrong and you may actually lower the enjoyment (page 60)

  • The complete guide on using toys with cunnilingus… add new sensations to the mix (pages 64 - 67)
  • 10 positions to perform cunnilingus in… spice things up with these different angles, sensations and experiences (pages 68 - 76)
  • How to still enjoy safe cunnilingus even if your partner has a virus or STD (page 19)
  • The 8 specific questions you must ask to find out exactly what she likes to, give her the best experience possible… most guys ask the wrong questions like, "do you like that?" (page 14)

  • The one thing you must ask your partner before she decides to get a wax… don't do this and she could be in a lot of pain for a long time! Hint: It's got nothing to do with the pain of waxing itself (page 30)
  • And much much more…

So Who Am I and Why Should You Listen To My Advice?

I don't want to toot my own horn but I'm not an amateur giving mediocre advice. I am a bestselling author of 19 books on sex, love, romance and relationships. My first book, The Romantic's Guide is an international bestseller. It was released in February 2000 and is already in its tenth printing.

I am regarded in the media as one of the nation's top experts on sex and relationship matters. I have been interviewed on over 500 of the top TV and radio shows in the world. So you know you're in good hands with my advice.

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