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My brother and me ended up having sex. What can go wrong? Should I continue?

asked Nov 19, 2017 in Questions by Kanuparthyswetha (160 points)
edited Nov 19, 2017 by longhands1

Hi, this is my second question here.

From your suggestions to my previous question, I tried to keep my brother away. But I wass unsuccessful and unfortunately we had sex.

The next day he tried to have sex again, but I warned him that it was not going to happen again. He simply obeyed my words and stared showing more love and affection towards me. I also felt his love and my heart and resolve melted and we did it again.

I had asked earlier whether Incest happens? Now, I know it does.

Can I continue having Sex? What can possibly go wrong?

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commented 5 days ago by trisha14 (105 points)
Still having sex with him

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You both are mature adults, so whatever happens consensually between the both of you is ok. Incest has different interpretations & different ways of making it look wrong or right. I feel if both partners are adults & they are fully consensual in the act, then nothing is wrong.

What could possibly go wrong? Two things, the relationship should not get more than physical, that is you both cannot afford to get mushy on each other. You are already married & even if not, there is no way you both could have married being own brother & sister, so continue loving each other as bro sis & no more. Other part is that you need to make it clear to each other that this relation can continue only till both of you want it to. Any point in time one partner wants to discontinue the other should respect it & not have any coercion or emotional blackmail.

Be safe & let this be strictly between the two of you only till your last breaths. Have a good time with your brother.
answered Nov 20, 2017 by nehasona (630 points)
selected Dec 24, 2017 by Kanuparthyswetha
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It's a great news that you ended up having sex with your brother. Nothing is going to go wrong, until your relationship is a secret.

If it is revealed to third person then the issue starts. So my sincere advice is to maintain it as a secret. Don't take any personal pictures.

Maintain the relationship as brother and sister.

So dear Swetha...enjoy and be safe..
answered Nov 19, 2017 by dr kalyan (465 points)
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Immediately stop this.You failed to prevent him.You surrendered to his wishes next day. It shouldn't  continue further.You will get pregnant from your brother.Your married life will be shattered.
answered Nov 19, 2017 by Motilal (8,035 points)
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Just keep privacy and if u r enjoying it, just go onn!!!!
answered Nov 19, 2017 by Andes001 (145 points)
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Hi Swetha,
How did that happened without your permission.
It would have happened with mutual consent since your desires dominated your morale there is nothing wrong enjoy it...
answered Nov 19, 2017 by maximos7 (265 points)
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You both already crossed the limit and from your description it seems that you do not have control over your mind so you cannot stop having sex. Morally it is wrong but since you already done it you can continue with him considering him a man whose dick you need inside your vagina and nothing else. If someone caught you having sex then you both will be in very embarrass situation and you may not be able to face your family later on so you both have to be extra careful so no one can caught you having sex with your brother. Always use condom for the protection so go ahead.
answered Nov 20, 2017 by alpesh kapdi (27,390 points)
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You already started a thing which cant be stopped now. Only thing you can do is to limit it as much as you can. Also i think you know the consequences right? So be careful.
Also use condom to avoid pregnancy.
answered Nov 21, 2017 by myselfarun (1,790 points)
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You have gone to such a level from where you both cannot restrict each other.
You have to use condom before you continue and beware that nobody comes to know about your secret sexual life with your brother. You cannot  control your brother, because it is impossible to control a man in Bed.
You cannot come out from this situation. Be careful about your family members. You may face problem one day
answered Nov 21, 2017 by pavan350 (1,350 points)
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Same happened to me also. But you have to recover from it yourself. I will explain reasons.

Marriages between blood relations might lead to health issues for the child as has been suspected for several years. Now, a detailed analysis of the issue involving over 11,000 children, born out of consanguineous marriages, revealed congenital anomalies in 386 of them. This figure of 3 per cent contrasts with the 1.6 per cent in children born of out of non-blood-relations.

Dr Eamonn Sheridan and associates from U.K. analysed these babies termed “Born in Bradford” to obtain these results. Bradford is a small area in the UK where Pakistani Muslims constitute 16.8 per cent of the population. A close knit group, they practice consanguinity; 75 per cent of them marry first cousins.

Babies born out of such wedlock could have a multiplicity of congenital problems. Heart problems top the list, followed by nervous disorders, limb anomalies and so forth. Sheridan and colleagues also studied the lifestyle, smoking and drinking habits, income and poverty and other factors that might contribute, and found that consanguinity is the leading culprit
answered Nov 28, 2017 by luvnfunf (105 points)
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I have returned at AA after quite sometime. Earlier, I had answered such questions quite often. In my view any sexual activity between adult men and women with full mutual consent is acceptable.

But you have to be secretive and take precaution against getting pregnant because of prevailing social norms.
answered Nov 28, 2017 by zena69 (1,875 points)

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