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Can you suggest a place I can have Sex, not at our Homes?

asked Nov 9, 2017 in Questions by Spectacle (145 points)
edited Nov 11, 2017 by longhands1

I am a 24 year old male who is single and stays in Chennai.

I have a few female friends who are asking me out for a date and I am pretty sure that given the chance they would engage in some sort of physical relationship. But I live with my parents and I am not able to bring them home and have sex.

Can you people suggest some ideas, where to have sex because I live with my parents. Most of the girls who I date are also living with their parents. I have a car, but I feel insecure having sex in car because someone might cross us and peep.

Should we go for lodges? Please pour your thoughts.

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Home is the best place to have Sex. Here you are in control. I am sure your parents must be attending some wedding or other engagements and you would have the house for a few hours.

Same applies to your Girlfriends' place too. You could always get caught, but there is a charm in nibbling at forbidden fruit and the adrenaline of getting caught is a heady sensation.

Or you can always ask a friend for his/her place. What are friends for?

Public places like parks and theatres are a strict no-no, as there are cameras everywhere. I have clips of couples making out in ATMs and Cubicles (where a cold-drink is served and charge is by the hour), but these are not recommended.

A fairly good Hotel is also a good bet. Cheap hotels could have cameras installed and before you know it, you and your girlfriend maybe the next clip on the Net. Starred Hotels require identification and sometimes proof that you are a couple.

Since, you have a car, I am sure that you would be able to find a bye-lane which has some privacy. But you will have to go rather late at night.

Have you read our Articles on Sex in Public places. That may give you some ideas. Type "Sex in Public places" in the Search Box on the top right and you will get ideas. I agree that some of those ideas like sex in the elevator or in the changing room or in a theater are not practicable.

Do let us know when you are able to put your plans into practice.
answered Nov 9, 2017 by longhands1 (88,850 points)
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Why you want avoid homes,is not clear.Home of either of you is the safest place for doing foreplay kissing,embracing,fondling,touching etc.Next step should be to come more closer.Sex comes last.Have a patience,there is no hurry.Patience and go slow tactics will pay dividend.Someday or other,you will get opportunity.Hotel and lodges are risky and requires identity of the couple.Both of you are not husband and wife,that too will need identity proof.A room in garden or an institute campus will be better,if you could negotiate the caretaker in lieu of money that you two want to spend some time together.
answered Nov 9, 2017 by Motilal (8,725 points)
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Cmmon, you have a car still finding place?

Just go for a long drive. Place a car in any multistory parking at the time of evening have sex and thats it.
answered Nov 9, 2017 by myselfarun (1,915 points)
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You people can use the car if you want to engage in some kind of sexual activities but not full sex.  However, there are chances that someone may caught you doing these stuff but if you select the site where there is less traffic then you can do some stuff without getting caught. Lodges are the best idea too. You can even use park if there is any famous park where couple go to do stuff.
answered Nov 10, 2017 by alpesh kapdi (27,850 points)
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You could try "" . This site is meant for couples and they provide safe place.

Other alternative is you could try OYE they also provide rooms for couples. See what is available in your city & what suits You.

All the best.
answered Nov 10, 2017 by manmumbai41 (455 points)
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Any of your friend's place. Probably that's best. The alternative would be, go for a short trip, book some house stays which many sites offer these days. They are hosted by common people. So the risk of filming is quite low. Prefer a one with decent rating and enjoy with girlfriend. Hope this helps.
answered Nov 11, 2017 by thewetindworld (565 points)
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It is surprising a Chennai Boy asks such type of question. We only heard about ECR (East Coast Road) and Mahabalipuram outings in Movies, News Channels. Have you explored both these options?
answered Nov 14, 2017 by solliadi (3,680 points)
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I don't understand why so many people are telling you to have sex at home. That is not always an option.

You should try this site(This is a referral link):

I have tried it personally and it's great for having safe sex in hotel. I went in with my girlfriend who is of different religion. No questions were asked to both of us. And we could spend great time in privacy together.

You can also try OYO rooms but I am sceptical of their service personally.

Asking a friend for a place can be a double edged sword, because they can blackmail you or ask for (sexual) favours in return.
answered Nov 14, 2017 by yolo_fun (105 points)

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