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Why have I lost my interest in sex?

asked Oct 28, 2017 in Questions by yadavPandit (120 points)
edited Nov 3, 2017 by longhands1

Hi all,

I was very fond of sex. I fucked a prostitute for the first time in 2015, and have fucked several prostitutes till August 2017. Now after August, I have lost interest in sex. Even my interest in watching porn has reduced. I also used to masturbate a lot. But now, I do not even get erection after watching blue film.

Irony is now I have a good girlfriend, who allows me to do sex with her. She was a Virginwhen we met.

Now Guys, my penis also does not get erect like before. Please help me guys. I am in so much tension.

What has happened to my Sex life?

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Losing sex interest is not good.My sex interest at 77+ still persists.We do non-penetrative sex.What is your age and no other details are available in your profile.You should not have started your sex life with prostitutes.There is fair possibility that you have acquired some dreadful sex disease from them.Immediately consult a Doctor and save yourself.
answered Oct 30, 2017 by Motilal (6,740 points)
commented Oct 30, 2017 by yadavPandit (120 points)
My age is 21. I always use condoms when having sex with prostitutes. I am totally healthy and do not have any diseases.

Also, I have interest in sex but my penis does not get erect these days
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Yadav, Bro I think it is due to tension.
First do foreplay. Ask your girlfriend to motivate and make you moody by standing nude infront of you, Kiss and hug her (Usually Girls love to do this), Better prefer a phone sex initiative to ensure you get mood. I think, you should be okay. If this doesn't work out , visit a Doctor.
answered Nov 1, 2017 by thewetindworld (565 points)
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I like to give suggestion in general criteria.we humans might  easily loose interest in repeated things.when i used to sex with my professor, I will not be in a mood to masturbate.then we used to concentrate on our  work for a long time, then set a date for next time.the gap and anxiety to meeting makes us have a great sex and keeps our relationship spicy.its better to concentrate on work and give rest to your dick.if still the problem persists it's better to concern doctor.hope this work.

Good luck
answered Nov 2, 2017 by Coolcracker420 (1,150 points)