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How to request my husband for anal sex?

asked Oct 22, 2017 in Questions by vaishu (210 points)
edited Oct 23, 2017 by longhands1

I am a married woman and mother of three kids. I was born and  brought up in india, but now living in ENGLAND with my husband and kids.

Last week when we were having sex, it was in doggy style. Just before penetrating my vagina, my hubby accidently rubbed my anus with his penis, it was a chilling sensation in the spine and a good feeling.

It happened for just a few seconds and then he penetrated my vagina and we had good time. Now, after that I am interested in having anal sex, but hesistating to ask my loving hubby. I dont know whether he will like it or not?

Generally when watching porn stuff, he does not like anal, but fingers my anal when fucking me. I liked it but never put his penis in there.

How to start the topic for anal sex? If any woman here has anal sex experience kindly share with me some new ideas..

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Best way is to seduce him by showing anal porno videos. Let him get convinced that you desperately need to try it once.

Secondly, try to watch more anal sex videos to get his interest on your ass and ass hole. Use KY jelly to get a smoother and painless anal sex, but to do that your hubby needs a really hard on, which you can get for him by sensual long sucking session.

I did it with few of my female friends. If you are going for it, better to use condom to avoid any STD.
answered Oct 22, 2017 by gentleman 42x (175 points)
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Hi Vaishu,

You are living in England but your thoughts are still like typical villagers. I think you are sharing bed with husband from long time then why are you feeling shy.

You may directly ask your husband if he likes anal sex. Or you may tell him you want him to penetrate your asshole. If you are hesitant to ask him directly, just use oil on your asshole and start encounter with doggy style.

Obviously, he will ask you about the oil or try to play with your asshole, but be sure clean your ass properly. If he notices then definitely he will approach you for anal sex. I think your husband is lucky you want him to fuck you asshole.

In general, always men want and women deny ass fuck.

Good luck
answered Oct 23, 2017 by kingmyaqueen (1,840 points)
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You should be direct with him about you wanting anal sex and know his idea on that. If he does not want to try it then you should stop asking him but there are chances that he is up for that so ask him about anal sex and discuss what he thinks about it. Let him also know why you start thinking about anal sex so he gets the idea.

You both have been together for years and have three kids together so such kind of discussion should be easy for you guys to have and discuss. You can only know whether he is open with the idea of having anal sex or not with discussion so discuss the subject with him to know what he wants.

Most of the men do want to have anal sex but do not have courage to ask their partners thinking that it may make them off so you should not predict anything about your husband just because he does not like to watch anal sex.

I always wanted to have anal sex with my girlfriend but I never asked her thinking she may not like it and after hearing my passion for anal sex she would not even have sex with me so I did not ask her but one day she just casually talked to me about her desire to have anal sex and I was up for that and we had anal sex so many times during our relationship so ask him because the worst that could happen is he may say no.
answered Oct 23, 2017 by alpesh kapdi (23,285 points)
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Possibly he wants to fuck you anally too. He has rubbed his dick head against your anus, making it look accidental. He wanted to probably feel your asshole with his dick.

I suggest you reach out and finger your asshole after lubricating yourself well and when he is fucking you in doggy position, he will get the cue and should finger you along with fucking you.

Tell him you love it that way. Tell him to make it two fingers after a while. The good thing is that when you are in heat and extremely turned on, these things never seen gross. As soon as he is fucking you with two fingers, ask him to fuck you with his penis. I am sure it shall work.

In my case, my hubby made me accustomed with fingers before I got convinced to go for getting fucked accommodating his entire dick inside my asshole.. and well.. it feels amazing.. I'm assuring you.
answered Oct 23, 2017 by meesha (215 points)
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Just ask him as to what are his thought about sexual fantasies and include anal sex into it,

That might give you the answer.
answered Oct 23, 2017 by Abybaby (120 points)
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Inhibit your shyness. Express your desire openly before him. Become shameless before your husband to enjoy pleasures of sex.

Ask him to use all the three holes you posses. I hope he will not deprive you.
answered Oct 23, 2017 by Motilal (6,700 points)
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Best way is to ask him in seductive way. Express your desire while kissing him, because more the kissing in sex is indication of strong bond between the partners.

Show him the videos of anal sex. I recommend you to see the videos of  "most true anal sex videos". Search in Google to see the precautions. It may hurt a little. But you  both may  like it. Dont forget to  be clean before anal sex. Use lots of water lines (you may buy online).

Tell him about your fantasy. He may really like this. Have healthy sex. Even my sex partner Professor told me "No" initially, but now, she is the one who calls every time for anal sex.

he says "I like the hot cum in my ass". You brought my memories back. Please update us, so that we might learn something from you.

Good luck.
answered Oct 24, 2017 by Coolcracker420 (1,150 points)

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