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I want to lose my Virginity to my Mausi who is 54 years old.

asked Oct 12, 2017 in Questions by Lost_lad (120 points)
edited Oct 13, 2017 by longhands1

Dear Members,

I am in big dilemma and really need your humble advise urgently. I am a single guy, aged 23 and started working. My Mausi is 54 years old and has 2 daughters both aged 25 and 23 respectively. My mausi is my mother's younger sister and she is separated from her husband for around 20 years ago.

Since then she has never married and is a single mother to both her daughters. I guess she treats me as her son and is very close to me even though I don't visit her often and talk to her regularly.

For the past few days, I have been madly thinking of having sex with her. I am pretty sure that she is craving for sex based on her physical appearance and the hints that I have noticed from her. I am a Virgin and thinking of losing my virginity to her. She stays alone in her house where as her daughters are away as they are working in other states. 

I once heard her saying that she is craving for sex and also love for 20 years which she has not gotten from her husband. She is a typical home maker and often gets sad over minor things. Even though her ex husband is sperated from her, he still visits them sometimes. He supports the family financially.  He talks to them whenever they want to consult him personally. Basically, my mausi is getting everything except for the emotional part.

I am thinking if I should proceed to have sex with her but I really want to bring her on my bed at least once. 

Please advise how I should proceed and what to do after having sex with her? I am young and I think I can have sex with her for 2 to 3 years until she loses her crave for sex as she is getting old and until I find a girlfriend.

Please give your genuine advises.

Thank you.

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Lost Lad,

1.Your Mausi seems to have occupied you fully. However, you need to carefully consider that she is a close relative and 54 years and has two daughters to be married. Arranging marriage for the daughters may be the worry of the single mother. She has not remarried all the while for her daughters. As a son, You and your mother may help her marrying her daughters first. Such relations become extremely risky, if her daughters are not married.

2. From your description, nowhere you mentioned that she is craving for you. If we assume that she is craving for you and her daughters are married - You need to make it clear to her that you are not thinking of any long term relationship.

You would get married in another 2-3yrs down the line, till then probably you can be her Sex Partner. Your aunt should be able to let you go and if she does not become habituated to satisfy her physical desires on a regular basis. Also make sure that nobody else in your family ever gets even a whiff of what is going on between you both.

3. We also have a lad in this forum, lost him for last couple of months, similar situation of you, I can say better, as his mausi has no children and loves him much - still he is virgin.

After all Mausis are proxy mothers.
answered Oct 12, 2017 by solliadi (2,910 points)
commented Nov 30, 2017 by Raj Handsome (1,430 points)
Are you talking about me in point 3 ?
commented Dec 5, 2017 by solliadi (2,910 points)
Yes. Raj. Welcome after a long gap.
commented Dec 12, 2017 by Raj Handsome (1,430 points)
Thanks..So I guessed it right..LOL
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The idea seems good that you can have sex with her for 2-3 years until she loses her interest in sex when she reaches the menopause and until that you can find a partner to replace her vagina but the issue is that whether she wants the same thing or not. It might be possible that she is craving for sex and love since so many years but there are chances that she would not choose you to have sex as you are the son figure for her so you have to make sure that in the first place that she is interested in you and you both want the same thing at the end of the day.

There are advantages with her like she is living alone, she treats you well, she is lonely, her daughters are out of the picture as they are staying at another place so do one thing, start visiting her place regularly, help her in her work, compliment her beauty and get into her personal life with showing your concerns so see how it goes.

If she wants sex then those are enough hints for her to spread her legs for you and you can roam into her vagina but if she does not show any positive sign then I would say you should stay away from her otherwise you will end up embarrassing yourself and losing the respect among family members so be careful that is all I can say.
answered Oct 13, 2017 by alpesh kapdi (27,390 points)
commented Oct 13, 2017 by Lost_lad (120 points)
Thanks for your feedback buddy,

I am also quite scared to make my advancement towards her but I really want to get her on bed at least once.

I have no idea how to get it done as it's going to be my first time but then I think it would only require some effort to do it.

I do know that she is craving for sex which she has not got for 20 years but still she hasn't gone outside to find it. I think she might just agree to bed me .

I am also scared how our relationship will turn out to be after sex. Will she treat me as her husband? Or still like her son? Is it possible to remain the mausi nephew relationship between us?

Will she get addictive to have sex with me? What is your experience about this? Please help.
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You are 23 (just like me). She doesn't have any interest in you. She is separated from her hubby 20 years, that doesn't mean she is craving for sex.

It will be very hard for a woman to bring up her 2 daughters, especially in this society of men who always treat a women as sex toys. You might not have any idea what hurdles she crossed in life for her daughters. She has to get them married. It means she will be undergoing so much stress and tension. You can't see any of this, but you can only see that she is craving for sex from 20 years.

I am not telling you about morality. Still you can try to show affection, vising her place daily, you will understand her needs and proceed further. If she understands your desire and allows you in, well and good. If not don't force her because is a woman with lots of responsibilities. Dont see her with lust. See her normally and try to understand her.

Good luck.
answered Oct 13, 2017 by Coolcracker420 (1,330 points)
commented Oct 13, 2017 by Lost_lad (120 points)
Thanks for your feedback,

As I mentioned earlier,  I am quite sure that she craves for sex which she has not got for the past 20 years. I know about this based on few hints I got from her.

Regardless, both her daughters are adults , mature enough and started earning and both have their boyfriends with whom they will get married with. So the marriage part is settled.

I know about the hardship she has gone through in her life and I really pity her for that. Oh yeah, I forgot to inform that her ex husband does still visit her and her daughter's and he is supporting them financially.

Even when he visits them some times , my mausi has never had intimate relationship with him but he supports financially.
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Did she really say she is craving for sex? To whom was she saying that?

I dont think a 54 years old lady will be talking about that openly. Maybe you are catching those "hints" in a different way.
answered Oct 21, 2017 by ana (465 points)

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