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I want to give fuck lessons to my son. How to start?

asked Oct 11, 2017 in Questions by deeptip (170 points)
edited Oct 13, 2017 by longhands1


I am a 36 year old widowed woman living in the City in 1BHK flat with my son. He is 18 years old. My husband passed away 5 years ago.

Since then my pussy has not been filled with a penis. Recently, I found semen on my panty. First, I couldn't understand how that happend. Next day when I went to the bathroom, I saw my son masturbating with my panty. I got angry but I was surprised to see his big penis. This made me remember his father and his big cock fucking me and I started masturbating.

Now, I want to get fucked by my son. How to start giving him Lessons in fucking?

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commented Oct 16, 2017 by Motilal (8,030 points)
Don't ask your son to do the job of your husband. He has soiled your panty with semen which is a condemnable act.

Keep your panty and bra in hiding. Rebuke him. Ignore his masturbation, your husband has also done this. I have also done.There is nothing new.

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Hi Dipti

Your husband passed away a long time ago. Your hunger is normal after seeing your son's dick. If you really want to get feel your son penis in your wet pussy, then you must be very gentle with him.

The best option is to tell him to massage your waist due to some pain and show him your ass crack. He is already feeling your body as per your statement using your panty for masturbation.

He definitely will try to go down let him feel your bumps. Watch what he is doing, if he will try to get more closer then no issues with you. You both are hungry but asking him directly will be not the right decision.

Proceed in efficient manner and open your legs slowly you will get success soon. As a man I know every men likes bumps and boobs but proceeding with boobs is not wise decision.

Best of luck your son is so lucky.
answered Oct 12, 2017 by kingmyaqueen (2,380 points)
selected Oct 17, 2017 by deeptip
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It is a matter of shame and disgust that being a mother of your son, you want to teach sex lessons to your son.Such type of moral degeneration is not expected from you.You will find many people to irrigate your pussy,why you want your son to do this job.
answered Oct 12, 2017 by Motilal (8,030 points)
commented Oct 12, 2017 by Darius (680 points)
Lame answer Motilal. Let her enjoy her life, there are a tons of people with incest lives. Both want to have sex with each other.

They just don't know how to express their feelings. There is nothing to be shameful about.
commented Oct 12, 2017 by Coolcracker420 (1,330 points)
edited Oct 13, 2017 by longhands1
It's not lame Darius. He was saying the truth. He is only 18. Will you be the responsible person if his future was spoiled due to his mother? If anyone asks you this question, do you have an answer?

If not, you have no right to disrespect an elder person. He was just guiding a woman who might spoil her own son's further in the name of lust.  I think this is the difference between an experienced person (Motilal sir) and a stubborn child (who can't understand the situations).

Try to understand the situation and then you can talk.

commented Oct 13, 2017 by Motilal (8,030 points)

You are a lad of 20 only. You are not proper authority to judge my view point. Lack of experience, immaturity and audacity is reflected in your behaviour.

You are encouraging incest between mother and son. Are you interested in your mother?
commented Oct 13, 2017 by Motilal (8,030 points)
Thanks for supporting my point of view.
commented Oct 14, 2017 by Darius (680 points)
But I think it's mentioned that both want sex ...its not only the mother ...even the son was masturbating 2 her name and with her panties so even he is interested. As far as I know ....Both are interested, they just don't know how to approach. Nothing will happen to the son's life.
commented Oct 16, 2017 by Coolcracker420 (1,330 points)
Do you understand, what you are  writing? You are telling his mother to submit herself to her son because he was masturbating on her name (without knowing what will happen to his future).
commented Nov 17, 2017 by Kitkatray (355 points)

I agree with you. If people are not putting moral in spouse cheating then why to put moral in brother sister, father daughter, mother son relationship.

If people are so concerned about son's life then don't have affair at all, then don't ask him to grow up . I have seen in my family what type of damage is done in children's life when children come to know about their parents affair... It destroy their dreams and what they believe in ...

If children are interested in widowed parents ...both are mature and adults, and they know the best . They can proceed.

Having sex with her son will increase the bond. And he will follow her like anything.
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He is only 18 years old and a boy who has to become a man one day. You might know he has to stand on his own legs and earn money for his life. Without job we men will be considered as useless, so why you want to  spoil his future?

It is very common at his age. You are in a position who can guide him. If you want to get drilled, go find someone else. Let him study and earn some money.

Good luck
answered Oct 12, 2017 by Coolcracker420 (1,330 points)
edited Oct 13, 2017 by longhands1
commented Oct 12, 2017 by deeptip (170 points)
But what if that someone force or blackmail me to have sex with others too. Thats why i want to seduce my son
commented Oct 13, 2017 by Coolcracker420 (1,330 points)
There might not be any problem. You are not the only woman who is having an extra marital affair.

There are many women who are having sex with outsiders secretly. Don't spoil his future. Talk with him and tell him to study. As a mom it is your responsibility.

Good luck
commented Oct 13, 2017 by pune32 (300 points)
You should  never go for one night  stand or have sex with stranger.

First you be friendly with the guy, chat / talk to him to try to know him better. Then meet him personally and if you think he is a gentleman, and you can trust him, then only go ahead.

Be clear on your expectations in future. You and he both should  not force these things on each other. Sex is something that should be done with mutual understanding and not be forced on anyone.
commented Oct 13, 2017 by Harsh.03 (1,025 points)
You are 36 years old. You know very well whom to trust and whom not to.

If you find someone, first know him well. find out if he really is trustworthy. Don't rush to hop into bed. Yes there are cheaters, and many on this Site also. But there are many good people too.

For the sake of your pleasure don't spoil your son's life. As I said earlier if you really want to have sex then remarry or find someone trustworthy.
commented Oct 14, 2017 by Darius (680 points)
Ya ....blackmailing can be very dangerous in this grey world, this generation. If both of you want sex, u can continue
commented Oct 14, 2017 by Darius (680 points)
Yo coolcracker420,  tell me the link between his future life, his job and the sex with his is it all related ?? :/
commented Nov 18, 2017 by Kitkatray (355 points)
If you want to have incest relation you can go for it. But This relation is not long term. And some day your son have to marry, keep in mind. What you do in side your home that is no bodys business.
About moral values... This is changed. Having sex with other person other than husband is also immoral.. Now it is not  immoral any more. Keep the moral aside.
There is good chance having relation with your son you can make him open minded person and look for potential boyfriend and your son won't mind that time. But this relation have to be consensual.

 I just ask people, who do think that having sex with son will destroy his life then tell me why they encourage married woman to go for affair with college. Knowing his mother affairs would make him proud ??? It will creat more problem when this sexually frustrated will do some bad choices and keep thinking his mother as a sexual object. And will affect his education and career.
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Firstly, I must say that your thinking is totally wrong. He is just 18. There are many important years to come in his life. Don't ruin him for your sexual pleasures.

I know you feel lonely and have urges of sex. You are only 36. You have 2 options.

1) Get remarried .
2) Find some good guy via social sites etc.

You need some love and sex. That's it.
answered Oct 12, 2017 by Harsh.03 (1,025 points)
edited Oct 13, 2017 by longhands1
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Dear Dipti,

You can try exposing your body to him. The best way I would suggest is, to catch him while he is masturbating and ask few questions as in why he was doing that.

Then just grab his penis and revive your sex life again.

answered Oct 12, 2017 by Darius (680 points)
commented Oct 13, 2017 by Motilal (8,030 points)
If your mother caught you masturbating....what she will do? What you will reply? Do dry cleaning of your evil brain.
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Do you really want to get fucked by your son? Once initiated it is very difficult to stop, staying in the same house. You should think about it before venturing into it.

There are many other options available to get sexual satisfaction other than seducing your son.

It is not very difficult to seduce him, as he is already thinking about you. You just need to show cues like wearing sleeveless nighties etc.

Are you a housewife? Which standard is your son studying in?
answered Oct 12, 2017 by solliadi (2,910 points)
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Download Tinder ma'am and you'll have hundreds of choices to choose one men in bed.

And teach your son a hard lesson by slapping him hard in the face. It's not rocket science but at the age of 18 if would get sex at home, he would never focus on studies and work and will always think about sex and sex all the time.

Behave wisely ma'am. Download Tinder for body urges.
answered Oct 13, 2017 by rockstar536 (870 points)
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I can understand what you are going through and i am sure he is watching some porn movies to act like this.

Start a normal conversation with him like: how is life in school/college? any Girlfriend?
Make him comfortable. Say things like: I am your mother as well as your friend. You can take advice from me for everything. Don't be shy. Then slowly come to this topic of masturbation. Tell him its normal for his age just do not do not do it often.

Always lock your door and try avoiding leaving any of your garments about.

Hope, I helped you.
answered Oct 14, 2017 by myselfarun (1,790 points)
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It's not good idea it's very sin Full  for mother and son doing intercourse You have lost your mind please find diffrent men for your pussy and boobs not your son
Your husband died that doesn't mean you can she your son as a second husband

 please guide your son for a better life make him feel proud  of you and make him a good person

Your son is just 18 don't spoil him
answered Oct 14, 2017 by pavan350 (1,350 points)
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Dear Deep ji,

Contrary to the opinions of a few others, I would say that as regards your sexual needs, the way of your thinking is not all that irrational. When sex happens as an extension of emotional love, it becomes very much satisfying.

As your son is an adult, you surely can consider this option. In this way  both of you can fulfill your physical needs. It can be carried out in utmost  secrecy too. Under no circumstances your son is going to brag outside about his affair with his own mother and bring you a bad name before the society. By being involved with your own son, you are not breaking any law also, as unlike some other countries incest is not illegal in India.

So in my opinion, you can seriously consider this option, but there should be no coercion, no emotional blackmailing or anything of that short.

My best wishes are with you. You can ask me anything more you want to know, here on this Forum.

answered Oct 22, 2017 by Hrudananda (150 points)
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Hi deepti,

I agree with kingmyaqueen. You can proceed as he said.

I don't understand why all moral values come when it comes to mother-son incest relationship? People are very open minded when it comes to this woman who is having EMA with others. People don't speak out that time like don't have affair, if having affair you will lose respect and lose beautiful mother-son relationship.

EVERY action has advantages and disadvantages.
Let me show you the other side of the picture:

A]  If you have an affair with other man other than your son
1. He will start feeling inferiority complex. For him it will be like losing the war to a unknown person.
2. Jealousy, disrespect towards you. Rude behavior, disobedience.
3.  Now he is 18 . Most critical time for his education and carrier. If you lose him then it will be very difficult for you to bring him back. Mother-son beautiful relationship will become just a dream.

B] Now when you start having relationship with your son put some ground rules like
1. This relationship will be like friends for benefits and does not have any future. Telling him that he should find a girl for himself and same goes for you as well. And keep reminding him that one day he has to start a family. Make your son an open minded guy.. Share every details of your relationship with others to your son. It will create make your mother-son relationship stronger.
2. Keep the power of making rules in this relationship in your hand. Set some bar for his, have to bring 80% in 12th no alcohol, no drugs.etc. He will just follow you.

It is more desirable if a widow woman having incest relation and create a happy, open minded successful son than not having sex for so called moral values and create an  unhappy environment, verbal abuse, disrespect towards his mother and unsuccessful son.
answered Nov 11, 2017 by Kitkatray (355 points)
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Talk to him.  Anyway he is shagging you.
So he will be happy to assist you.
answered Aug 31 by g_hrny (180 points)

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