I've been married for 8.5 years. Last year, I caught my wife in an affair with her elder cousin Brother and was devastated but somehow managed to keep our marriage intact.
Things improved between us since then and just to test my wife, I casually asked her whether she would still like to be with other men. To my surprise she replied in the affirmative. I got confused and to dig out more details, asked her to share her fantasies, which again took me by surprise!
My wife is suggesting that we indulge in swinging as she wants to see me with other women!!! I don't know how to handle the situation, I just don't see myself with other women. I'm not sure whether continuing with our marriage was right decision or not.
Please tell me what should I do? If I say yes to her demands, how do I bring myself to be with other women and have sex with them?
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