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I have been thinking about my cousin Sister and what is on her mind?

asked Sep 18, 2017 in Questions by Donalddefoe (255 points)
edited Sep 19, 2017 by longhands1

Hi Guys,

This is again about my cousin sister, that I had told you in my earlier Post. She is still separated from her husband and living with her mother and two kids. I am in college now and believe me, I have been trying to get her out of my  head but cant.

We sometimes chat on FaceBook about normal stuff, but I wonder if anything else goes on in her head. The situation is tricky because she is close to my mom. If something goes horribly wrong, I am afraid she will tell my mom (worst case scenario).

Hee is a recap.

1. She is in her early thirties.

2. 3 years back when she visited our house, she confided in me about her suicidal thoughts.

3. She tried to learn Maths from me for her exams.

4. Has kept her head on my lap often.


Just need your guidance as to what to do now.

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Nothing suggests that she wants something from you so I would say stay away from her and do not try to take the advantage of her situation rather I would say you need to be her support and now it is your duty to protect her and help her. You should play the role of responsible brother as she is in a vulnerable stage of the life. However, the matter would be different if she had given you any signal that she wants to be with you in an intimate relationship but so far nothing like this.
answered Sep 20, 2017 by alpesh kapdi (27,365 points)
selected Sep 25, 2017 by Donalddefoe
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It’s easy to tell what is on your Sister’s mind. There is nothing. She is behaving like a normal cousin sister would do.

But I can tell what is on your mind. You have been reading too many Cousin Sister Incest Stories and even an innocent action on her part, is giving you an erection. Stop masturbating thinking about such harmless acts on her part. Just because she confided in you about her marital problems (and they were not even about sex), you have been wondering if she wants you in bed.    

I don’t blame you. At 19, and with a permanent hard on in your pants, you get the crazy idea, that you are God’s answer to her prayers. But sex is the last thing on her mind and surely it is not sex with you.  

Your earlier Post spoke about your lust for your Uncle’s wife and your vivid imagination. You have not told us what happened next.

Stop fantasizing and concentrate on your career. Better still get a Girlfriend of your age and then ask for our guidance.
answered Sep 19, 2017 by longhands1 (84,335 points)
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Are you loving her? She occupied you fully. Wait for 2 to 3 years. Complete your studies. You are a man of purpose. You propose her to marry after that.
answered Sep 19, 2017 by solliadi (2,910 points)

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