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How to prepare my Bhabhi to have sex with me?

asked Sep 18, 2017 in Questions by Pathan3322 (120 points)
edited Sep 19, 2017 by longhands1

I am from Pakistan, 28 years old. My bhabhi is 40 years old. I have developed a strong sexual attraction towards her. Now-a-days, I am always dreaming about having sex with her. I even dream about girls who look like my bhabhi.

My bhabhi is a housewife having 3 kids. She has a separate home. Her house is infront of our house. She is a very religious woman. I always stare at her, and she just smiles and never gets angry.

Since last month, I have touched her whenever possible, like in the kitchen and suddenly touching while passing. She noticed it but her reaction is that she moves to the side and lets me pass by her. She tries to get away and give me space so that I will not touch her even accidently.

Today, I was talking with her, and staring at her. She just stared back. She even dropped her duppatta, and I could see her boobs very closely. I mostly stare at her ass, as I like her ass the most. So she bent 3-4 times while her back was towards me.

Now, I want some suggestions from you all how to seduce her and get her ready for fucking. I want it so much that I am willing to pay someone in India for vashikaran.

Please, any suggestions will be appreciated. I just want her. Thanks.

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Are you married? How good is the relationship with your brother? The answers to these questions are important, because it is not only about the lust that you have for your SIL, but how you will impact the life of the people around you.

It is clear from what you have described (thanks for your honesty) that your SIL has no intentions of sleeping with you. She has made in quite clear by moving out of your way, that she is aware of your sexual intentions and does not want to be part of it.

I think she is quite mature and just smiles at your kid like behavior. I am sure that if things go out of hand (from your side), she will not hesitate to tell your brother about your misbehavior. I hope you are prepared with some excuse.   

In a household, the members are close together for much of the time and so if she bends down while doing some work, it is not her intention to allow you to look at her ass or gauge the height she would need to bend for you to have sex with her. It is just that she is doing her daily chores and if her dupatta slips off, it does not mean that she wants you to have a peek at her cleavage and boobs.   

You call yourself a Pathan. Pathans I believe are those who pride themselves in getting what they want without resorting to magic and “vashikaran”.
answered Sep 19, 2017 by longhands1 (84,380 points)
commented Sep 19, 2017 by Pathan3322 (120 points)
Thanks for answer Longhands.

No, I am not married. And  relationship with my brother is normal. Since he is 15 years elder than me, we are not frank. Just a relation of respect.

Secondly, I agree with your arguments that till this moment she has not shown any interest. She is very religious, that's why I was going towards Vashikaran. But I don't know much about vashikaran. Even whether it is real or not.

I just found a man from India who told me to pay him 10000 PKR. And he will do that vashikaran and my bhabhi will be in my hands. He said then I will be able to control her mind.

The main reason for posting my question here was to get some suggestions and methods so that I might be able to make her mind for a secret relationship.

Yes, I also fear that at this time if I make any bold move she will tell my brother. And its 100% sure that I will be expelled from my home. But I have all these risks in my mind. I have this crush or intention towards her since 11 years. For 11 years i have controlled myself and always told myself that I should not do this. But not anymore. I just want to do this.

I have many girlfriends, with whom I have had sex many times. But now a days I get no pleasure in sex with my any of them. Everytime my bhabhi is in my mind. I made few relationships with some married women as I thought that maybe I will like married women Aunty type and my lust for my bhabhi will end. But no. I got no pleasure seducing these women.

So clearly I just need some suggestions and methods to make her mind.

commented Sep 19, 2017 by longhands1 (84,380 points)

I am glad you have written in and clarified a few points. You, obviously are educated. I am surprised and shocked that you are falling prey to an unscruplous man who has brain washed you into his powers of changing your Bhabi's mind. This is just nonsense and he is fleecing you. Once, you pay him, he will demand more money and I can bet that you will be making a fool of yourself. You seem to be desperate and so a definite victim for a con. Take my word, he will take the money from you in advance.

Having a Fantasy is not bad. We all have them. It helps our sexual Life. But when we want it to turn into reality, then you must consider the repercussions.

Your Bhabi is extremely religious. Her relations with her husband seem okay. She has never flirted with you. All these are receipes for disaster in what you are planning.

You have to get your Bhabi to become interested in you. Spend as much time as you can with her. No TOUCHING. She has to have some feelings for you before she parts her legs for you.

You have to do it. Vashikaran is for those who want to make money from Guys like you and get rich quickly.
commented Sep 20, 2017 by Pathan3322 (120 points)
Hello Longhands,

Your opinions on this matter is very good.

In the past 3 years, I came in touch with four married ladies. These ladies were mature and aunty type like my bhabhi. None of them had any past affairs like that. All were happy and satisfied with their husbands. But I tried and used my skills to make up their mind. And I ended up on bed with these four of them.

But there is one problem. When I am having sex with those women, my Bhabhi is still in my mind. And I did not get much pleasure from them.

Masturbation also does not do any good for me. If I masturbate now, and after 20 minutes I will be thinking about bhabhi and my penis will be erected again. And I will masturbate again. And then after an hour i will feel same emotions.

Now a days due to so much masturbation for bhabhi i have got the problem of premature ejaculation, Which I cured by consulting with a doctor. But if I don't masturbate then bhabhi is always on my mind. And I can't do anything properly. Even when I am with a client, my bhabhi is in my mind.

When I am eating, she comes in my mind and my hunger for food dies. Means she is disturbing my life so much over past 10 years. So I thought that I should make love with her so that i feel satisfied. Sex with any other woman doesn't satisfy me.

So, I just need opinions how to make her mind safely. Over a long period of time. But slowly. I have experience with married women. I did con them. I just need to persuade my bhabhi too.

But I don't know the first few steps. As we are living in same home. She is my SIL. And yes, I have fears in my mind.

I should tell you something more, my bhabhi lives in a separate home. When my bro goes for his job and children go to school, she comes in our house. As our houses are in front of another. But at this time, I am also at my job. In the evening she also comes into my home. At that time children are also in tuition and my bro to another job. She comes to help my mother in some chores.

The point is while she is in my house. I cant just talk to her continuously, the way I want as my mother is also around. And i cant go daily to her house too, because it will be noticed soon by my mother or father.
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You are already using Vasikarn (attracting the affection of people by coercion) Techniques unconsciously. Dreaming about having sex with the person is also one of the vasikaran technique.

The draw back of vasikaran techniques is that if the person desired has a strong will (or is religious) against the charming, these techniques will not work out. If it is used against the wife of another person or a woman who is indifferent, but with an oscillating mind, one may succeed.

Over a period, you may invariably become wicked and treated by the society as outcaste or not respected. What you sow you will reap.
answered Sep 19, 2017 by solliadi (2,910 points)
commented Sep 19, 2017 by guruofalldivas (405 points)
Very well said. He risks disrepute.

Plus, if elder brother were to be aware of this, Pathan may lose permanent roof over his head or face his family's wrath.

Bhabhi's intent also need to be looked into. Maybe, she's laying a honey- trap and hoping that Pathan gets caught red handed?

Think Mr. Pathan but dont' Act on it.
commented Sep 20, 2017 by Pathan3322 (120 points)
Thanks to all people who answered and gave me suggestions.

From all these answers, I can understand that its highly risky. And yes till this day I don't know my bhabhi's intentions.
My main point was to ask about some eye to eye methods or any gestures that can make my bhabhi's mind towards sex.

As I have done that before with married women. She had no intention towards me. She had no sex desire. She was happy with her husband. But i made her mind through talking phone. And she ended up loving me and have sex with me.
That was an experience on phone.

I am a Marketer by profession. A sales executive in a well known company in Pakistan. So my persuasive skills are a lot better. But with bhabhi these skills don't work, due to my emotional attraction towards her. She is also my first crush while i was only 15 years old.

I just need few advices that i can use to make up her mind. Risks are very high. But if i can make her mind not doing anything bold then yes she will manage herself other things to be with me.

I have experienced that if a women wants to be with a man, she will do anything to make it happen and in mostly cases nobody knows anything. Women plan everything safely and perfectly.

So, I am asking again. Is there a safe way to make her mind over long period of time?
commented Sep 20, 2017 by solliadi (2,910 points)
One Hypothetical Question.
If nature makes a situation for you to protect her and her 3 kids, will you take it as a blessing or cursing?
commented Sep 20, 2017 by Pathan3322 (120 points)
It will be a blessing for sure. And i will protect them by any means.
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There is no vashikaran so stop looking after those things otherwise that would put you in trouble unnecessarily. It seems that she has given you indirect hint that she is ready and wants to take step towards you otherwise no women would drop their dupatta to show their asserts to another man so there are chances so try to be close with her by helping her and getting into her life’s problems as that would give you access to be with her all the time. There are chances that you may be able to get into her pants.  However, this is something you cannot get over night so you have to be patience and need to take right steps into right directions.
answered Sep 20, 2017 by alpesh kapdi (27,390 points)
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You can try talking to her, becoming more close. Once you become close, you can bring up topics about sex, her sex life..etc.

Try to stay in her house for a week, wear a slim fit track pant and walk in front of her with an erection. See what is her reaction.

You could tell us if anything else takes place, and we could help you. :)
answered Sep 28, 2017 by Darius (680 points)

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