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Can I go to a Gay spa for Sex. Is it safe?

asked Sep 1, 2017 in Questions by rajesh2904 (205 points)
edited Sep 10, 2017 by longhands1

Please see my earlier questions. I want to have a gay sex experience. Will it be a good idea to go to a Gay Spa for enjoyment and sex.

Someone suggested that in these places you can find male partners for having sex. Is it safe to pick up a gay partner form such a place?

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You only seem to be asking us whether it is safe to have Gay Sex, but not moving ahead. Since this question asked some time ago, remains unanswered….I am answering it.

Yes, there are Gay Spas in most Metro Cities. You can locate them on Locanto. These Spas are quite safe and hygienic. Here you can choose your partner, without the fear of being blackmailed etc.  

You don’t need any recommendation to visit these places and some famous Hotels also cater to the Service. It may be a bit expensive but it is well worth it. Most of the Staff are professionals and well behaved and helpful. There are Lockers where you can keep your belongings and then strip and put a towel around your waist.

The facilities are impressive: a sauna, warm room, swimming pool, dark room and, individual rooms with either a wipeable mattress on the floor or a bench with a mattress on it. Here you will experience “cruising” …..just like picking up a prostitute in a Brothel. You can be picky and choosy as there will be some new comers like you and many regulars too.  

There could be some rooms that are occupied and if there is a guy lying on his stomach and exposing his bottom, it means he wants to be a “Bottom”. If they are sitting up, it means they want a bit more of mixture – top and bottom.
If the door is open and something's going on it's a possible invitation to watch or join in. If you pop your head in when this is going on, you either get a shake of the head, or you're welcomed in.

Then there is the Dark room (it's very dark), filled with groans and dim silhouettes of multiple bodies. You can have an orgy here. But not everybody has sex. Some just come for the atmosphere and a chat with friends.  

So, you may be wondering, how do I know so much? Well, I have Friends like you who share their experiences.

Do share yours.
answered Sep 22, 2017 by longhands1 (77,195 points)
selected Oct 1, 2017 by rajesh2904
commented Oct 2, 2017 by longhands1 (77,195 points)
Thanks Rajesh, for appreciating my Answer.

Please keep us posted about future developments.
commented Oct 8, 2017 by rajesh2904 (205 points)
Hello Sir,

I like your answer. You told me that you always ask about Gay Sex, but not doing anything in moving ahead.

This is because I am scared of Gay Sex. I have not done it
yet, due to the fear of anal pain, security, faithfulness of my partner etc.

May be this time I will go ahead without fear.

Thanks again Sir.
commented Oct 8, 2017 by longhands1 (77,195 points)

Thanks for your feedback.

Yes, I do understand your fear. It is not something that you can decide beforehand how things should work out as this will be your first time.

It is not necessary for you to have anal sex (bottom) if you fear the pain. You can first try inserting your penis in your partner's anus and then if you are comfortable you can move ahead.

Recently, we had a question from a User who also wants to try it out. Send him a PM and see if things work out.

Remember, if you are married and your wife finds out, then your marriage could be in danger.

But, yes...unless you try it will never know if it suits you. Remember to insist on use of condom.

Do let us know what happened.

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