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Should I tell my Mom about my penis problem?

asked Aug 11, 2017 in Questions by Goelamit (125 points)
edited Aug 14, 2017 by longhands1

I'm 20 years old and my mom is around 58. Recently, I discovered a problem with my penis i.e. its foreskin is not attached properly and it goes down beyond the normal point.

I'm planning to discuss this with my mother. When I was small mom used to take care of my dick and still she asks me some time if I wash it properly or not.

Now I don't know whether I should tell her my problem or not and moreover I told her my problem most probably she would ask me to show her my dick.

It will be embarrassing too. Should I tell her my problem?

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You are now 20.You should visit doctor for that. And do what they suggest and then you can told all to your dad.
answered Aug 17, 2017 by Ankit cool (985 points)
selected Dec 20, 2017 by Goelamit
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It appears to be ok.
Tell to your father and show it to him
You are 20 now, do not be mother boy - you are not small now. ok?
answered Aug 11, 2017 by solliadi (1,980 points)
commented Aug 11, 2017 by Goelamit (125 points)
I'm much comfortable with mom particularly on this topic. She has seen my dick various times (childhood upto the age of 8 or 9 and when I had some medical problem at the age of 15 .. she used to clean me at that time)
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Hi Amit
Brother you are not a kid now. You are 20. You are old enough to vote in election and in one year you would be legally old enough to marry and impregnate a girl.
Just go to a clinic. Visit a normal clinic, if required doctor could recommend you for a specialist. You dont need to take your dick problems to your mother.
By the way it does not sound as some major problem, I guess it is quite normal. But visit a doctor by yourself and keep mommy out of your pants.
good luck
answered Aug 11, 2017 by chinmay and chinmay (470 points)
commented Aug 11, 2017 by Goelamit (125 points)
Well actually today I told my mom about the problem and she told me it's all okay. Foreskin should go backward and asked me to clean it properly and if I want she will help me in cleaning. She didn't asked me to show my dick but anyhow I showed the picture of my dick to my mom in my pho ne. After that I'm totally relieved that there is no problem in my dick and it is just something of white colour substance is there and that will be cleaned in some days by washing it at least 3 times a day as my mom me this. Any other suggestion to clean that white sticky substance ?
commented Aug 12, 2017 by chinmay and chinmay (470 points)
That sticky white substance is to washed with soap and water. Dot it every day while bathing. It need not to be washed thrice a day.
This time you went to mom, next time solve it by yourself. I am not undermining the relationship and openness you have with your mom, I really appreciate it. It is really rare in India.
But solve it by yourself next time. If this remains the same, even after your marriage, it might freak out your wife or live in. That is my only concern.
Thanks and all the best
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Your mother is doctor or what???

for this problem you must go to special doctors not to your parents.
And there is no need to worry. You will get fine after medication if any needed, but you need to go to doctor as soon as possible and get cured yourself.
I wish a good fortune and keep us updating on your scenario.
answered Aug 11, 2017 by Harsh.03 (615 points)
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If she still asks you the questions about your penis then you can tell her as you both share the terms where you both can talk about the penis. However, if she asks you to show your penis to her then if you wish then you can show it but the best advice I would give you is see the doctor and discuss your problem with the doctor and follow his instructions to get resolved your issue.  It seems that you observations the things out of the way as foreskin behave oddly around the penis so it seems normal to me if there is no pain.
answered Aug 12, 2017 by alpesh kapdi (23,335 points)
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I think there is no problem in your Penis.The foreskin of penis must be moving up and down during masturbation.It better to discuss the matter with father,as he posses penis like you.Keep mother away from this.It doesn't look nice that mother should see your adult penis.It appears that mother has seen deposited Smegma ,it should be cleaned regularly.
answered Aug 12, 2017 by Motilal (6,740 points)
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Hey amit,

Your problem is not big.

This happens due to your masturbation. Some white fluid deposits under the foreskin of penis, so don't worry about it. You clean and wash your dick at regular intervals of time in a day then it will stop.

But still if you want to discuss with your mom than I will advice you, at the time of showing dick to your mom it may possible that you get erection, so if you and your mom will be comfortable than you can go further, else avoid this odd situation.
answered Aug 16, 2017 by Lustyraj69 (390 points)
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No because your are 20 now if you show her your penis and she being a lady in first place your penis make be erect in front of your mom and you may face embarrassment in front of your mom

It's not major problem consult a doctor if you feel like doing better don't show penis to your mom It's sure your manhood will get erection and you feel ashamed about it later
answered Aug 17, 2017 by pavan350 (1,075 points)

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