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I saw my Mom smooching her dance Teacher. Should I tell dad?

asked Aug 9, 2017 in Questions by dan18 (120 points)
edited Aug 20, 2017 by longhands1

I had to pick up my Mom from her dance class. I got done earlier from my work so went there before time. As I reached, I saw mom with her Teacher come down the building holding hands. They then went to a coffee shop opposite the road. They both were sitting in an embrace and many times during their talks smooched for long times.

After that, instead of going to class, they went behind the building which is a deserted lane. Over there, he took off mom's top and bra and was hugging and playing with her.

After 15 minutes of that, they went back to class.

What should I do? Should I tell my Dad or assk her about the what I saw?

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Before saying anything just mey cause your family..

Look from her your father spending with her or not..she may not sexually satisfied with your father what is your father age..and what is yours mothers age...what about their health status...before  taking any step think all consequmecea..bettter discuss with your mother....
answered Aug 9, 2017 by dr kalyan (435 points)
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Instead of telling your father, you discuss with your mother what you saw. You get it clarified first. Whatever you saw with your eyes may not be true.
answered Aug 9, 2017 by solliadi (2,355 points)
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Of course you should tell your dad, she got no right to cheat on him. You too would be cheating on your dad if you don't tell him the truth. Your father is paying for your mother's classes so that she can learn dance not to sleep around with teachers.
answered Aug 9, 2017 by gr8gaur (1,975 points)
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It means she is not sexual satisfied so she need another men...
Even if u seduce her u too can fuck her
answered Aug 10, 2017 by Jonika (265 points)
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Hi Dan!

Do you stay in India? Narmally in India, women do affairs inside walls, but as you mom is doing it boldly, by going to coffee shop and behind building, she might be in love with the dance teacher.

If you tell this to your dad, this might turn to more complications. Rather speak to her first. Oh, forgot to ask your ages... I hope you are big enough to discuss this issue.

I would tell you one thing, when a woman goes out with someone outside their marriage, their are certainly some serious consideration. So I would suggest to speak to her only and not tell you to your dad.
answered Aug 11, 2017 by Rati.Anil (345 points)
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You are just one step away from breaking up your Family.

First approach your Mom and talk to her. Make her understand and promise that she will not repeat it,  then it can save your family.

Else tell your dad straight.
answered Aug 11, 2017 by myselfarun (1,360 points)
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Firstly speak to your mom about matter which you saw between her and your teacher because your mom may not be satisfied by your father she being a middle age lady wants to fulfil her sexual desire and your teacher may provide what she wants

Don't tell your father about this matter it may lead to bigger problems in all of your life Be patient take some time
answered Aug 11, 2017 by pavan350 (1,150 points)
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Dear dan18,

Before complaining to your dad and creating a big tussle, it would be better to discuss the Issue sensitively with your mom. Complaints are not solutions, so I would suggest you be the solution, not a complainant.

Coming to what you saw. Whatever, you saw may be a half truth. May be your mom was doing that due to some pressure.

Answers of all this may lie in confrontation. Confront your mom sensibly. Ask respectfully about that incident, and observe her stand.
answered Aug 11, 2017 by arjun.masti1 (110 points)
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Hi Dan what happens now? do u tell ur father? its better u have detailed spying on both of them
answered Aug 16, 2017 by pawan boy (275 points)
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In India, this seems to be a story but nothing is impossible in relationship these days as per my experience.

You should first try to talk to your mom. Why she does that? Does she love him or it's trying to get sex satisfaction. May she is not happy with her sex life. You have to ask all that politely. And if it's all about sex then tell her that it is not the correct way.

Suggest she tries different types of sex with your father. Even if it does not help her then it's your time to fulfill her if you can. If she tell  that she is unhappy with her sex life then you have to give her a good and wild sex to satisfy her.

Please do it like you are helping her and not as you want her. Or you don't want to do that then keep this all with you and not share this with anyone.

You can ask more tips on the Site.
answered Aug 17, 2017 by Ankit cool (985 points)
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It's better to confront her when you both are alone. It would be better for your family's survival in the future. Try to get to know why she's doing this? What she thinks of you & your father? Is she aware about the consequences? How she can handle the situation if it goes out of hand?
You can ask such questions & few more as per your convenience and curiosity.
It's very important because her actions will directly & indirectly effect you & your whole family. Result could be devastating.
I'm afraid she's in blind Love with her teacher that's why she's become careless with her behaviour in public. I'm sure right now she's not thinking with her straight mind.
Right now she's wife of your father & that's why this is the case of extramarital affair. And she really has some explaining to do, if she cares about her family.
See brother, do confront her but don't SHAME her.
Your polite & understanding approach might be an eye opener for her. And you maybe able to avoid the unknown danger of future.
Remember she's your mother & also a human with emotional & physical need. And a person of any age can commit mistake.
answered Aug 19, 2017 by friskyrisky (160 points)
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Even my mom used to do this like buddy... she is teacher she gives  her feet to suck ... and she laid with her friend who is at home
answered Aug 30, 2017 by mithun mike (140 points)

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