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My Gay partner wants wants his male friend also to join in. What to do?

asked Jul 23, 2017 in Questions by rajesh2904 (205 points)
edited Jul 24, 2017 by longhands1

Thanks to all of you for your answers to my questions asked before.

I want your advice again. I am a Bottom Gay, but also Bi. Last time, I asked about having gay sex encounter which I have not yet done. The problem is this the guy, who is a Top Gay, said he will arrange the place but the place belongs to his friend who will also be a part of our sexual encounter.

This means I have to do sex with both guys one by one. On the one hand I am feeling adventerous and want to try it, but on the other side, I am scared.

I do not know the other guy, who also wants to have sex. Is it safe? Should I go ahead. I there any harm in this? What precautions should I take?

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Not a good option mate.

The reason for this is :

1. What if he record your video of threesome and then later on blackmail you for bringing his more friends in action and gangbanging you ?

2. As it is your first time Gay Encounter,you don't know the capacity of your ass or whether your body will customize love making with immediate another guy after first.

3. You have made emotional bond with that first guy to whom you are chatting for long time.You will get pleasure of sex with that guy as you know him. But meeting the stranger and directly getting banged from him will not give you pleasure. That stranger will also not perform sexual activity with gentle and care as he personally don't know you.So his primary focus will be satisfying his personal sexual need. He may not give a damm about your pain.

So my advice is don't accept his offer as it has lots of cons than pros.

If place is problem for you and your friend then do it in low cost lodge as high priced lodge is not what you guys are looking.You both can even divide contribution and pay for the same.

All the best for your first Gay Encounter.

answered Jul 25, 2017 by Raj Handsome (1,430 points)
selected Sep 1, 2017 by rajesh2904
commented Sep 4, 2017 by Raj Handsome (1,430 points)
Thanks for choosing my answer as best answer buddy.
How was your first gay encounter ?
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You have yet to experience the gay sex so do not look for threesome at this stage as you do not know whether your body is ready for the gay sex or not so if you want to have a gay sex then have only with him and tell him that you will not allowing any other person to join in with you guys as you are not comfortable.

You can have the adventure sex later in the life when you feel that this is the thing you want. Right now you even do not know whether you are ass is capable enough to take penis inside or not so first have sex with him and then decide what you want. Moreover, the deal he is put forwarding is not something you should say yes as it sounds that you have to offer your ass because he is giving you guys a place to have fun which I would say bad deal. 

answered Jul 24, 2017 by alpesh kapdi (27,390 points)

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