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How to convince my Wife to wear Sleeveless dresses?

asked Jul 21, 2017 in Questions by ROYALPK (140 points)
edited Jul 21, 2017 by longhands1

My wife is plus size, but sexy. If she wears sleeveless dresses she looks more sexy. She does not like to wear sleeveless dresses.

I want her to wear sleeveless low cut dresses, so that others will hungrily look at her and become jealous that I am husband of such sexy wife. But she is feeling shy to wear sleeveless dresses outside.

Please advise how can I convice her towear such types of dresses?

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commented Jul 21, 2017 by Motilal (6,480 points)
This is the problem of many homes.My wife is dead against this.In night she wears loose dress.Shares bed with me.She wears Sari,Blouse and Petticoat.
commented Jul 21, 2017 by Raj Handsome (1,140 points)
Motilal ji..
Your wife must be more than 70 now. As you are 77 so I guessed her age. How come at this age she will wear such colthes which ROYALPK  wants his wife to wear ?
commented Jul 22, 2017 by Motilal (6,480 points)
She is 75. Your guess is right.
commented Jul 23, 2017 by Raj Handsome (1,140 points)
Then how come at this age she will wear sleeveless dresses and all ?

Does she wear nighty or gown while sleeping at night with you on same bed ?
commented Jul 23, 2017 by myselfarun (965 points)
its all about confidence. Tell her that just try this at home just in front of u. try to compliment her then take this to next level ask her to try that thing only foe special occasions like parties.

m sure she will get compliment too ajd theb inly she will start dressing as u want.

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Have you discussed this issue with your wife that you like her wearing sleeveless ? You told she don't like to wear such dress but if you insist her that she looks more sexy in that dress and you like her more in that dress then maybe she will listen. Maybe she don't like to wear those clothes coz she think she is too fat to try those outfits.She may be in inferiority complex. Tell her that even if she is fat still she looks sexy in that dress. Give her examples of actresses who are fat and wearing such clothes. You can show her pics of those actresses also wearing sleeveless if you want. Every woman want to look beautiful and sexy. If she will get boost from you then she will definately wear those outfits.

Still if she doesn't agree then when you go for outing,praise the women who are wearing sleeveless and say that "She is looking damm sexy" Due to this she will think of wearing sleeveless as no wife want her husband to have lust to other woman or praise about other woman.

I think that will solve your problem definately.

Update us in future whether your wife fulfilled your demand or not.

answered Jul 21, 2017 by Raj Handsome (1,140 points)
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If she feels shy then do not force her to do something that she does not want to do. However, keep complimenting her that she looks sexy in sleeveless dresses and encourage her to wear it but do not force her and one day I am sure she will become confidence enough to wear it but that will take time so keep the patience as such thing you will not get overnight. 

answered Jul 22, 2017 by alpesh kapdi (22,910 points)
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Dear Royalpk,

If she is not agreed then don't force her to do.

I think it is necessary for her to feel or realize that she is fat but also sexy. My be she is always heisted & feels uncomfortable about her fat body. That's why she is very much shy to wear those outfits.

If she is sexy then no need to wear any sleeveless or low cut dresses outside.
answered Jul 22, 2017 by sadiajaman (200 points)
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Which wife? First wife, of age 52, who is not interested in sex. Second wife of age 42. Which wife you want  to wear sleeveless low cut dresses, so that others will hungrily look at her and become Proud (not jealous) that I am husband of such sexy wife.
A Moral Couplet from Kural :Men of virtue and discernment will not commit the folly,Of lusting after other men's wives.
answered Jul 23, 2017 by solliadi (1,805 points)

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