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I am a Widower. How to approach or get a houdewife ready for consensual Sex?

asked Jul 20, 2017 in Questions by Satyam7487 (120 points)
edited Jul 21, 2017 by longhands1

I am widowed, 34 years old. I am the shy type but want to have lots of sex. Without sex its really hard to live.

I am not into prostitutes etc, so real and safe are only married women etc, but since I am shy type I dont know how to approach a married woman. I am also afraid that if she tells her husband about my flirting with her, he will create a scene.

I masturbate 2-3 times a day and can't concentrate anywhere. I just want to sleep with woman and have sex.

What should I do?

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You are a widower. Single father. Age 34.
The best option will be to marry. You just sleep with that woman and have sex.
Being a single father and approaching a married woman does not go well.
Think over.... Long way to go in life..
answered Jul 20, 2017 by solliadi (1,830 points)
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You are looking for an easy way out. While we sympathize with you about becoming a widower at a young age, what you are looking at is not the solution.

It seems you do not want to spend money and visit an Escort Agency. You don’t have to look for prostitutes only, if you are willing to spend 10k for an hour, you can get a very good Escort, who will take care of your sex lust.

You think that it is easy to find housewives who are going to have sex with you for free? It comes with a lot of tension and you do not know how it will end. Your posting the question here shows that you are looking for some of our lady Members who will fall for your ploy and jump into bed with you. You could be sadly mistaken. Most of our Members can see through such bait and are wary of giving it away for free.

answered Jul 21, 2017 by longhands1 (77,100 points)
commented Jul 21, 2017 by Satyam7487 (120 points)
Thanks for your comments, I just want Sex and its mutual pleasure for both... woman will also enjoy.

So why money involved, I am not a super rich guy.
commented Jul 21, 2017 by longhands1 (77,100 points)


There are 2 ways you can have Sex. Either by paying for it or by investing your time and energy in seducing a woman.

You dont worry about the woman's enjoyment....that she will take care of. You think that housewives are dying for sex and will fall into your lap?

Think long term. At your age and under your circumstances, it would be best if you make efforts to get married. In that way, you can have emotional bonds as well as sex to your heart's desire.

For some reason, I get the impression that you want to have Sex for free.

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I am really sorry for your loss at young age.

As you are single father, you can't run from responsibilty of your child. I am not saying that you don't take care of your child. But if you get yourself in such act then definately it will add pressure to your life and it will lead to your child's life also.Don't just think for your satisfaction. Your child must be about maximum of 10 years old now or less than that. Till the age of 20-21,parents should concentrate at childrens upbringing. If you search for females to fulfil your lust then it will definately hamper your thinking towards your children's upbringing.

I will advice you to marry to a decent girl as still you are not that much old.Just 34. Look at a girl who will accept your child happily. You can fulfil your sex lust with her daily. You are not a single person who is marrying second at this age. Many people survived happily marrying second time.

Think for long terms of life not for short time fun and self enjoyment.

Think wisely on my advice.

Best of luck for your future life.

answered Jul 21, 2017 by Raj Handsome (1,140 points)
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That is something no one can teach you so do not look for the tricks to get women and that too married one. Most of the time people who tell that they get married women for sex are fake one and a few are real so do not believe that everyone is able to get that opportunity and it is something that everyone can get with a few tricks someone suggests.  If possible then go for the marriage again and get a wife. Ask your parents and family members to find a suitable bride for you. Your wish to get sex from married women is not advisable as that is something I do not think you can do. 

answered Jul 22, 2017 by alpesh kapdi (22,910 points)
commented Jul 22, 2017 by Satyam7487 (120 points)
Thanks for your answer
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It's better for you to get marry again.

for ideal bride look for who is widow or divorce.

there is no fix formula to get laid with married woman. it's not everyone's cup of coffee. so leave this idea and marry again.
answered Jul 22, 2017 by Harsh.03 (570 points)

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