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Confused about having Sex with my Divorced Cousin Sister. Your Advice, please.

asked Jul 17, 2017 in Questions by Sapk (120 points)
edited Jul 17, 2017 by longhands1

Hello Everybody,

This incident happened 2 months ago. I'm a student, aged 21. My cousin sister is 33 years old. In my teenage, I was attracted to her beauty but later realized that I was wrong because she is my mother's sister's daughter.  She was married 4 years ago to a Research Fellow. They were staying at different places due to work. Her husband was not interested in girls. He was a homosexual. This we came to know only after 4 years. She is divorced 6 months ago.

One day there was a family function. In the night, due to lack of rooms we two were in one room. I was to sleep on the floor and she was to sleep in bed. But she told me to sleep on the bed. Till then, I had no bad intentions. But when I woke up at night, I lost my control. Her body structure was visible. The smell of her sweat also attracted me. It was cold outside. I hugged her tightly. Kissed her lips hard and tried to put my finger in her vagina. She understood my intention.

First, she was not ready and tried to convince me that we are brother and sister. But, I did not want to listen to all this. I kissed her private spots and breasts forcefully. After that, she co-operated with me by closing her eyes and making some sounds. I showed her heaven by licking her everywhere. At last I reached the climax by inserting my penis in her vagina.

She was a Virgin because her vagina was very tight and she cried with pain. It was difficult. There was no protection between us as it was accidental. I came outside her. After the session, we lay on the bed naked. She with tearful eyes told me that it was her first sexual experience in her life. Her husband never even touched her. Her naked body in darkness made me mad. We never slept that night and had sex for about 4 sessions. Each time I found that she was more hungry than me and she was hugging me tight even after the climax. In the early morning she gave me a blowjob. I licked her vagina.

Recently, when I chatted with her, I asked her, if she is ready for one more time. She replied, “Yes” but I should use protection.

But I'm confused. What should I do?

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A beautiful woman in her 30s managed to stay virgin..... unbelievable!!!!! Coming to tour question, whats the confusion about ? Use a condom, though I know having a plastic doesn't giver much pleasure compared to touch of skin inside her but you can try with condom, else you can ask her to use protection like female condoms, pills or having sex when she's not ovulating.
answered Jul 17, 2017 by gr8gaur (1,950 points)
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INCEST : You know that you are in it. Universally it is a crime and you are lucky you aren't caught either legally bor by your Parents.

You are just 21, with a quite high adrenal rush and slept with your cousin (immediate extended family person). You have a long way to go just leave her because it will affect you family relations.

It is better for you, your family and your future. As you would know the consequences will be too rigid to deal with if caught.

Above all, I find this too flimsy which probably is partially true.

answered Jul 17, 2017 by akkountwast (115 points)
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You both have already crossed the line. What is wrong in continuing. Continue with protection as she suggested. Both of them should be clear about the relationship.
Whay she married late at the age of 29? If she is divorced, and there is a longway to go... as a brother you advise her to marry someone to come along till the rest of her life.
Do not miss your career focus due to this.
answered Jul 17, 2017 by solliadi (2,235 points)
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Where is the confusion? You have crossed the physical barrier and it seems also the mental barrier as you have asked her for sex the second time round. So there is no guilt involved now.

You have described the experience in colourful detail which suggests that you also have a fertile mind, besides having a fertile impregnating system at your age. That brings me to the question of your Sister, insisting that you use condoms the next time your fertile imagination erupts. That is a wise decision. You may not be comfortable with using condoms, but surely you don’t want to plant your seed in taboo land and then have some explaining to do, how the seed got planted there.

Your Sister complained about pain. It seems that you did not have enough foreplay and she was not lubricated enough, which would have caused friction and led to her painful intercourse. You have confidently stated that your married Sister was a virgin. This is doubtful. Even though her husband was a homosexual, this fact would have manifested only later on and not immediately after marriage, so they would have had sex, even if rarely. You need not feel guilty on this count, that you were responsible for taking away your Sister’s virginity.     

You are young and need to think of your future. Such messy affairs have a tendency to snowball into emotional conflicts and could hamper your ability of having other friends of the opposite sex.

answered Jul 17, 2017 by longhands1 (80,455 points)
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I really feels Incest sex is bad thing.
I have seen many questions regarding incest sex and I'm amazed how many people said yes go have sex.
Now your just 21 years old. It is clear that you just want sex. What is bothering you now. I mean you had sex with her.  And now you are afraid of something. It's really confusing whats your problem now. If you need help then you need to be more specific.
answered Jul 17, 2017 by Harsh.03 (715 points)
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what is the confusion now?
use protection and love her. its good when both are agree and happily doing it.

mean while find some good person for her to marry.
answered Jul 18, 2017 by sheetal69 (480 points)
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close this chapter right now else you will face problem once you get married.

When you get married ur sister would like to be treated as ur wife in bed and u cannot make justice to two women, dont spoil your life...
answered Jul 18, 2017 by babblo4u (170 points)
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You both have crossed your boundaries of being a brother and sister relationship You both have done what two lovers or married husband wife do its called Sex
You both are involved in this act and you both are interested in it then both may not have problem about it
Your sister being virgin after 4 year of her marriage its very sad part and so it's your duty now find a suitable husband for her because you can't be her husband forever you are temporary husband for her mind it
Next time while having sex please use condoms its better for both of you
answered Jul 18, 2017 by pavan350 (1,140 points)
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Why u r confused ...go 4 it
answered Jul 24, 2017 by Jobin_jobin (110 points)
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Dear spak,

You said your sister took divorce after 4 years, what was she doing with that homosexual.

Another thing you mentioned she was virgin even at the age of 33. Is it so? Really amazing. Ok , whatever it is. Don't be confused, you had sexual fantasy for her. You got the chance and clicked it. And she also lost her virginity by you.

So right there bro-sis relation broke up, so don't confuse again to have sex with her. Don't forget you are the person who gave her the immense pleasure what she was wanting for years. So feel free to give pleasure again.

Try  to get a partner for yourself and also try to find a partner for her. Till then do it.
answered Aug 22, 2017 by dashing prava (445 points)

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