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My Cousin Sister has Oral Sex with me, but is not showing me vagina. What to do?

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asked Jul 14 in Questions by sk2150 (120 points)
edited Jul 14 by longhands1

I am 20 years old. My cousin sister is also of the same age. She is beautiful. She is my mother's sister's daughter. We stay in near by houses. For others we are brother and sister.

We are in a secret relationship. We see porn videos together and engage in oral sex since 18. Also we have slept naked  for many nights. One night, I had anal sex also with her. When ever we get a chance we liplock each other. She very much likes to play with my penis and give me blowjobs. Many times, I have ejaculated my semen on her face and in her mouth.

Now the problem is: She feels guilty about all this. She says that we should stop this relationship. But I do not want to stop. I told her that we can stop the relationship whenever I feel her vagina. But she is not ready for it.

Now-a-days she is not interested in sex. But I can't forget her. Recently, at midnight, I forcefully kissed her in her bed and licked her breasts. Now she does not even speak to me. But I want to feel her vagina.

I am confused. How to convince her? Is our relationship right or wrong?

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SK2150
She is your mother's sister's daughter. You cannot marry her. Whatever you both learned from each other is an experience. Now one of you wants to end the relationship, even it is difficult, the other should honour it. This answers both of your questions.
answered Jul 14 by solliadi (425 points)
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Ignore her, mirror her behaviour, restrain yourself and don't act desperate. If she then breaks the ice and gets worried then you can convince her but if she doesn't react for say about a week then probably she has changed her mindset and there's nothing much you can do about it.
answered Jul 14 by gr8gaur (1,490 points)
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Sk,

There must be a reason for her U turn. As you have admitted, yours was a clandestine relationship and carried out under cover of darkness. Have you tried to find out what the reasons are? Have you spoken to her?   

Possibly, she has met another Boy and is in love with him. Honestly, she does not owe you any explanation. You need to count your stars that she went this far with you. She obviously thinks that there is no future in the relationship with you. Tell me, if she would ask you to marry her, what would be your Answer. Exactly, that is the reason why she is now having second thoughts. 

What makes you think that if you were allowed to see her pussy, you would stop at that? We both know what it would lead to and so does she.

It is very difficult to see reason when in love and when you are getting pussy on the sly. Time has come for you to let go.

The more force you use, the greater will be her dislike for you and this distance will then never be resolved.  

answered Jul 14 by longhands1 (63,890 points)
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See you hoth at this age are already gome too far. She is basically now gulity as u r sayung or has lost intrest in u. If u want her back just change ur attitude and dont be a pussy. She will get back to u.

if not just let it be as u cannot force someone and its not good too. Just remember if u both again indulge im these activities k afraid u will make her pregnant may be she knows this that's y she is not taking it further.
answered Jul 15 by myselfarun (220 points)
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Dear Sk2150,
you both are very closed and have experience of your sexual desire. she love you so much; Girl can not give oral sex without love. its very much personal. so you have to take care of the person who loves you. if she dont allow you to fuck her vaginally, just respect her choice and feeling.
Forced sex is called rape and its a criminal offence. REMEMBER IT!
 
being a girl I can tell you she still love you but she dont want to cross the limit. relations between brother and sister have no age. thy have short life. but love and respect is very important for the life.

Just think from her angle; "She Gave everything to her lovely brother; her brother dont care about her if she is not allowing vaginal sex". she is your sister. please respect her feeling; she is not just vagina to fuck.

I suggest you, that you talk to her and Say sorry for your forcefully kiss. and assured her that you will protect her, love her as a brother always. keep remember your past like Happy moments, if you not happy with them just forget everything whatever you did,  but they should not spoil your future relation. Just love her, care her.

I am sure she will talk to you and everything will be good. but NEVER FORCE HER FOR ANYTHING NOT EVEN TOUCH.
answered Jul 16 by sheetal69 (260 points)
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Just seduces her more n than try to touch her pussy if she gets excited u ll get to fuck her...
answered Jul 16 by Jonika (240 points)
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Your relationship is wrong not just because you both are brother and sister but you are forcing her for sexual favors and that is not right. You should keep in mind that you do not have a right to force her to fulfill your wish. You had done sexual things with you in the past but that does not mean that she has to do it all the time or you got a license to have sexual things with her all the time.

She did it when she was ready and now she does not want to do it because she feels guilty so you have to respect her decision and keep those memories with you to remember your good time with her but stay away from her and respect her decision.

Why she does not want to continue with you has no answer and you should not try to find it out just keep in mind that she has changed with time and what she has started when she was 18 was wrong and she realized it now so she wants to stops it and you have to support her for that. 

answered Jul 17 by alpesh kapdi (20,445 points)

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