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I have fantasies of wanting to see my Wife exposed. Am I normal?

asked Jul 7, 2017 in Questions by shapatel (120 points)
edited Jul 17, 2017 by longhands1

I am 32 years old and my wife is 29 years old. We both are working and have 2 kids. Our sex Life is also good. My wife is working in a  foreign export company.  

I have some hidden fantasies in my mind. I want to see some one flirt with my wife in public places and her office, especially  her office colleagues!  She is working in an International Company, so she wears short office skirt with tight tops. Other girls in the Office also wear these type of clothes. I fantasize thinking about my wife exposing her legs and her boobs and her cleavage and other men are enjoying watching and caressing herr.

Some times, I buy her revealing dresses or low cut blouses for public functions, and she also does not mind it. Actually, she loves it. 

I am so confused about my strange feelings. I feat what she will think if she comes to know about my hidden feelings.

Sometimes, I feel very bad about my thoughts and behavior. Please help me!! Can someone explain if this is normal or do I have to get treatment about these feelings?

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Hi bro..its a very normal thing..this is called cuckold..every man has different desire to get aroused.In your case you get aroused just by thinking about your wife getting fucked in front of you.

Its completely normal.this is your natural desire for getting aroused..In many case man get aroused by thinking about their sister, mom,aunt..atc..this is called incest sex..its also normal.the thing is how you want to lead your life..some people think that what society had taught them from childhood thats dont stare at other women..dont think ill of your sister,mom,aunt.

In your case wife..but some people want to live their life by their own beliefs..they wrote new rules for if you really want to enjoy your sexual life you can talk your fanticies with your wife..may be she agree or disagree..but you wil have a clearcut answer..but if you dont you will never know that what would have happen if you just told your wife.

so in either case you are right and you just need to know what actually you want really..

answered Jul 7, 2017 by IGNACIO (365 points)
commented Jul 8, 2017 by shapatel (120 points)
thank you understand my feelings and my situation, :) .
i read your comment, but i have a no idea about like that, i mean she having sex with others front of me, but i love someone  flirt  with her body(not nude... :). while me and my wife attending office functions or some other functions i knew &  i saw other guys and her office colleagues flirting her. when i see that i felt very hot. and something happening inside me. i hope you can understand me.  ;)
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Dear Shapatel

I simply quote some couplets.:

If one wishes not to be ridiculed, let him protect
his heart from ill thoughts of near and dear.
answered Jul 7, 2017 by solliadi (1,805 points)
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Ya it is normal thing which comes in most of the men's mind...
They love to see Thier lover ones to see them getting fuck by others
answered Jul 8, 2017 by Jonika (265 points)
commented Jul 8, 2017 by shapatel (120 points)
oh thankyou :) anyway i have no idea about like that, i mean see  getting sex with others but i love her office colleagues or my office Friends looking her hot parts with hot dresses. so i confused my self is it right or wrong. thank you for your comments
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Invite your friends,in a party and openly express your desire,to see boobs of your wife fondled by others.I hope everybody will accept it.Give them a chance to fondle her breasts.Remember that matter may not stop here.Further,reaction may lead to sex orgy.Will you be able to tolerate this?
answered Jul 8, 2017 by Motilal (6,480 points)
commented Jul 8, 2017 by shapatel (120 points)
thank you understand my feelings and my situation, :) . ah ahhaa but i love some one especially her office colleagues looking at her ;). but not full nude man ;) just like her lags, hot boobs and revealing dresses or low cut blouses. thank you for your comment.!
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hi shapatel,
I think your wife is hot & sexy. She looks very much pretty with wearing short  & reviling cloths. Her office colleagues must flirting with her.

When she exposed her sexy thighs wearing short skirts & show her cleavage with wearing low cut blouse then you were very much excited. You felt proud to be a husband of her and also think that all her office colleagues including your office friends are felt jealous with you.because you have such a hot & sexy wife.

May be you felt see your wife's exposed sexy figure in public with wearing short & sexy outfits. So, If I am not wrong, this is a simple things, that's all nothing else.
answered Jul 30, 2017 by sadiajaman (200 points)
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Welcome to fantasy world . This tops the list of fantasy most men have . I agree it gives a great kick and turn on exposing wife / gf and when other men graze at their assets . Frankly speaking most men love it .
Do NOT worry its quiet normal for most of the husbands

Few Ideas which can be executed safely . ( Adding it with the safety level as NEWBIE , BEGINNER , SEASONED & EXPERT )

1. Gardening with her when the neighbors are seeing  , She wearing a loose t shirt without BRA .  ( NEWBIE )
2. Opening the Door answering the Pizza guy to take delivery , she with a bath coat with water dripping open hair . - (SEASONED)
3. Going for a dinner party and she wearing a strapless dress exposing her cleavage . - ( BEGINNER )
4. Let her wear a sleeveless tops and raising hands high to reach something in the balcony when neighbors are around - (NEWBIE )
5. Nude beaches  - ( EXPERT )
6. Wearing a sexy party wear for a dance party with some drinks - ( SEASONED )
7. Making out with windows open with dim light , where people can sense your making love but cant see clearly - ( SEASONED )
8. Masturbating in car in highway while you drive pass side the trucks . - ( EXPERT )
9. Tell her wear a low neck which would expose her cleavage easily tell her to drop something and bend down accidentally when climbing up stairs when neighbors walk down .  ( BEGINNER )
10. Getting wet in the rain with a semi transparent white t shirt without a bra and getting into your apartments on a rainy day     ( SEASONED )
11. Making out on top of water tank around a high raise apartments at night . ( EXPERT )
12. Swim together in a swim suit in some pools or theme parks  ( SEASONED )
13. Short Skirt without panty and Low cut top for a shopping mall and sitting in the lounge to get the strangers attention ( SEASONED )

Have these things in mind and follow strictly

- Do not attempt it when kids are around
- Be cautious, be careful do not go around where police is there ( NUDITY IS NOT ACCEPTED IN OUR LAW )
- Keep Control of situations don't cross your limits or get carried away
- Pre-Plan things have PLAN B Always if PLAN A doesn't work out
- Know About the audience your trying to attract don't get into trouble
- Always Start Small when your a newbie .
answered Jul 30, 2017 by srajesh (1,135 points)

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