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My Lover wants me to swallow his semen. I don't like it. What to do?

asked Jul 7, 2017 in Questions by gogoisushma (200 points)
edited Jul 17, 2017 by longhands1

My lover keeps requesting me to swallow his semen when we engage in oral sex. To please him, I do swallow but I don't like it. He even mentioned that he like to see me with his semen on my face. I love him so I never say no to him.

But how can I tell him am not enjoying this?

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I think you dont like the taste of semen and the smell which irritates you. You could try using edibles like chocolate, Cream..etc on his penis and then suck on it. It will hopefully satisfy you and your partner because its rude to tell you dont like the act. Your partner has a fetish and desire towards you & you need to fulfill it.
answered Jul 10, 2017 by Darius (480 points)
selected Jan 18 by longhands1
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Hi Sushma,

The only way you can tell him if he polite but direct that you don't like the act. That way he would know what you really like and what you don't.
Next is since he already knows you can say you won't stop taking semen buy only swallow it once a while. Like a deal. That ways you also get what you want and he audio can enjoy what he wants sometimes.
Do it impromptu so that he can enjoy it sometimes without knowing when he shall get it completely and when you shall not swallow.
Having said all this you can put down your foot for the act.
That's completely your choice and your partner shall have to respect it.
But from a guys perspective nothing is more satisfying and fulfilling than watching his gal take his semen in mouth and swallow it..I know many who are only wishful and luckily I have enjoyed everytime with my ex, unfortunately wifey doesn't. So I can't tell you how much I miss it.
That's heaven and if you can give it then please continue
answered Jul 7, 2017 by wick007 (415 points)
commented Jul 8, 2017 by gogoisushma (200 points)
I don't want to make it awkward at that moment. I tried talking to him on this but I was not able to.
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Just ask him to eat something sweet or spit it or just confess that u hate it
answered Jul 8, 2017 by Jean (110 points)
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There is nothing harm in swallowing semen it contains some proteins too...
I do drink my bfs cum regularly
answered Jul 8, 2017 by Jonika (265 points)
commented Jul 8, 2017 by gogoisushma (200 points)
I know there is no harm and I have done it many times just because he likes it. But I don't know why I still don't want to do it.
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There is no harm in swallowing cum(semen) of a healthy its just comprises of proteins and living cells and also swallowing semen makes chances of pregnancy null.
When it comes to personal matter then you have 100% right of choosing what you want or dont in intimate matters if you dont like drinking semen then clearly tell your lover that you dont like if he truly loves you he will understand that and will may not force you for swallowing semen.
If he forces you just ask him can he swallow his own semen ?
Both partners are equal in sexual matters and there are some limitations and personal choices of our partner which we have to obey.
answered Jul 8, 2017 by nishi18 (150 points)
commented Jul 8, 2017 by gogoisushma (200 points)
I made up my mind many times and wanted to say it that please don't ask me to swallow but at those moments it didn't felt right to say no. I was afraid it will spoil the mood of both of us.
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Many male love it when his girl swallow his cum. but it should be comfortable to the girl. you should talk to him and tell that you dont like it.
or you can do one thing. allow him to cum in your mouth and kiss him with his cum filled in your mouth, I am sure he dont like the taste. if he dont like the taste, you can tell him that's why you cant swallow it.  or if he like the taste and take his cum from your mouth. let him enjoy. most boys dont like it. but many enjoy this act.
answered Jul 9, 2017 by sheetal69 (460 points)
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Nothing gives more satisfaction to men than watching their partner swallowing their 'thick milk'. Since you do not like, tell him and compromise with him once in a while. His desires also should be taken care of. Similarly you also make him do something like that, for example, licking your ass hole, if it excites you. Let him compromise with you.
answered Jul 9, 2017 by kunjumon57 (425 points)
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You are molesting your body by not telling him no, that you do not want to do it as you do not like. You love him but that does not mean that you have to obey all his wishes so learn how to say no and how to be firm on your decision that you do not want to do it. If he loves you then he would not force you or request you to swallow his semen once you denied and if he does then he is not in love with you but he is using your body for his personal pleasure. I would say start respecting your body otherwise you would feel used one as you are not sexual object so no one has a right to treat you like this way. Do not define love with sexual acts as love is something different and sex is only part of it. 

answered Jul 10, 2017 by alpesh kapdi (22,895 points)
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The only way, you need to tell him

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answered Sep 11, 2017 by Govardhan (110 points)
edited Sep 11, 2017 by longhands1

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