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I am confused how to have sex with my virgin girlfriend. Help.

asked Jun 18, 2017 in Questions by Heart Assassin (195 points)
edited Jun 20, 2017 by longhands1


I am Benny, aged 22, unmarried guy from Tamil Nadu. My girlfriend is 17. She has a Slim type body and light weight. There is a 5 year age difference between us. Couple of weeks back, we together had some intimate moments at my home. We stripped completely, caressed each other which led to foreplay (sucking and kissing only, haven't tried fingering her). All were good upto this point.

Then, she urged me to fuck her virgin pussy. I used condoms and made her lie down. I placed my penis on her pussy lips and she guided my penis to her vagina, but I was unable to enter her vagina. I stuggled a lot to push my penis into her vagina, but did not succeed.

Then I sucked her vagina and noticed that she had a small vagina. Today, she told me that she loves me very much and she wants to feel my penis inside her and she's urging me to fuck her next time without condom.

I am pretty confused of what I should do on her next visit to my home. Is she too young for sex? How to penetrate inside her small virgin pussy ?

Hoping for a reply.

Thank you Anjali mam for the opportunity.

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She is not adult enough to have sex as she has not passed the legal age to have sex so do not have sex with her otherwise you could be prosecuted for having sex with a minor girl and you could lend yourself into jail with charges of rape. Therefore, wait to have sex with her until she becomes the 18 years old.

Therefore, I do not want to give you any advice on how to penetrate her tight vagina. If you love her then do not do these things to her. You both need to wait and if she insists you to have sex with her then being a mature and elder man than her you should make her understand that it is not right and you both should wait. Never have sex with her without a condom as that would be really dangerous to her health and she may end up getting pregnant. It seems that she is not ready for the sex so think with your mind and not with your tip of penis.

I would say avoid any kind of physical things with her as you do not have a right to exploit a minor girl even if she wants you to do. 

answered Jun 19, 2017 by alpesh kapdi (25,205 points)
selected Jun 22, 2017 by Heart Assassin
commented Jun 22, 2017 by Heart Assassin (195 points)
Thank you for your reply. Will do as you say. Seems right !!!

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