I'm a 30 year old guy, married for 5 years, to the gal whom I loved since a long time. Post pregnancy wife has stopped sexual intimacy, which I tried to adjust to as the peiod between our sex sessions grew.
She wanted a massage session for both of us. She called a male and female masseur to our home, but only the male masseur turned up. He gave me a massage and then followed it up by giving her one too. I felt that the massage to her was a little too intimate for my comfort.
The weird thing was that I was turned on and we had rocking sex after that. I confronted her and told her I had seen the masseur's hands going inside her shorts. She admitted she couldn't stop his hands from wandering as his hands were amazing. She admitted that she had orgasmed when he felt her pussy through the loose shorts.
She thought that this way she could really get turned and couldn't think of anything more than another great massage session. I admitted that I too was turned on. She was surprisingly very happy. She told me the magic was due to a stranger's hand and she was too familiar to mine, hence the turn on was missing.
She went on to admit me that she had called him once more when I was at work but didn't do anything other then letting him massage her body.
I asked her directly if she was interested in doing intercourse too? She said that Iif I did not have a problem then she would love it. I said I needed time to think over it.
The guy seemed a nice guy and it looks like she really wants a change, which might actually help our non-existent sexual life. I feel like giving in to her idea.
What do you all thin I should do?
Say her yes as you have already allowed her to have a massage from another guy and that guy gave her orgasm so let her do the rest of the work. If you think that your sex life may get better then you can allow her to have sex with other man and at the same time tell her that you have also right to have sex another woman you like as you both are talking about open marriage where both the partners have a right to have sex with other people.
There are many couples are into open marriage especially in western culture and are happy so you can also try for it. Even if you say no to her then I think she will have sex with him behind your back as she already got the massage from him otherwise your knowledge and I am sure she also had sex with him but she is denying not to upset you.
Therefore, go for the open marriage but talk to her before stepping in the open marriage that you have a right to say no if you feel uncomfortable about it later on and she needs to obey you for the sake of the marriage life.