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Is my wife hiding something from me?

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asked Jun 13 in Questions by mitesh (240 points)
Hi all,

After 4 months of separation, I and my wife shifted to another city. One day she told me to shave all the hair on my body. I thought she was joking. She then gave me the address of the Salon and said go there they will shave everything.

She also told me its a good salon. Now my doubt is ....how could she know about a Man's saloon. I think during our 4 months of separation period, she has hidden many things from me. Do you all also think so? Please let me know.



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Dear friend nowadays usage of internet is common. She must have googled it out or her friend must have told her. The last possibility is another man. You were not there for 4 months. She is also a woman so forgive her and move on in ur life.
answered Jun 13 by vimo (285 points)
commented Jun 14 by mitesh (240 points)
I know but I asked her how you know and during our separation she told me she remains at her home never goes outside its just assumption.but many time I caught her with her friend on activa.
another thing she also told me that go to that saloon cause they use natural product
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Maybe and maybe not. This instance is not conclusive enough to say your wife is having or had an affair (that's what you want to ask, right?). Give us some more details like why the two of you were separated? What was her behavior during these 4 months? Her history and all. You can share details as nobody will ever know who you are, so feel free and feel safe to share info.
answered Jun 13 by gr8gaur (1,635 points)
commented Jun 14 by mitesh (240 points)
cause she wants to live in big city and she does not like to stay with family more.
in four months she told me you have to choose from me and your family.end at last one day she told me if I will not do what she is saying than she will go to one who will give her love.
but after four month we were together
commented Jun 15 by gr8gaur (1,635 points)
And yours is an arranged marriage, right ? Even if its love marriage, in either case it was a wrong choice by your parents or yourself. Marriage doesn't work by threatening and imposing conditions on one another. Did you talk to her parents, did you involved both set of parents to discuss future ? And who is the 'One' she's referring to ? Doesn't sound a decent woman to me at all.
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There are many possibilities why she knows that the saloon is good and that a man saloon. She might have visited it, she might found out about the saloon on the internet, her friends have suggested it, there is an add about it and she comes to know about it so better to ask her why she knows that it is a good saloon for men and how she comes to know about it and hear what she has to say.

If you found anything suspicious then confront her but if she has a genuine answer for this then you should not blame her for anything. Moreover, you do not have any evidence that she might have done something wrong so give the benefit of the doubt to her as this is a very sensitive issue that may derail your married life so handle to smartly.

Make sure that you do not over analyzing things. Has she given you any reason that makes you worry about her loyalty? Sometimes we predict the worse thing but in reality there is no such thing. If I were in your place then I would not blame my wife for anything just because she gives me an address about the saloon but I would have definitely asked her how she came to know about it. 

answered Jun 14 by alpesh kapdi (21,210 points)
commented Jun 14 by mitesh (240 points)
thanks for your answer
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You sound like a typical insecure husband, with a wife who is leagues ahead in looks, further fueling the insecurity.

My serious advice is, take some self-improvement classes..
answered Jun 18 by blore.guy (205 points)
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Hahahaha r u kidding me, it's simple Google is there help everyone, your wife must searched for a saloon even u can also know more about womens...

If u find it suspicious sit with your wife and discuss the issues, discussion will always lead to a solution ...
answered Jun 18 by rockstar536 (470 points)

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