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My girlfriend wants me to fuck her. But I dont want to.

asked May 29, 2017 in Questions by himascool (120 points)
edited May 31, 2017 by longhands1

I fell in love with a girl when I was 17. Now I am 21 years old. Recently we celebrated our 4th Love anniversary. My gf is 19 years old. When we met up we used to have anal sex.

Now she is asking me to fuck her using a condom but I don't like to doit before marriage. I don't like to fuck my girlfriend. I need help from you all. After a big argument she is telling me to atleast fuck her ass.

What should I do? When I refuse said no to her she always gets sad and broken.

Help me.

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Everyone has sex urges and being a boyfriend u should fullfill all of hee dreams at least in bed, u must b aware that there must be 100 of boys out there who's willing to fuck her but she chose u to fuck her.
And if u r thinking that pre marital sex is bad or something than there's no such thing exists sex is the next level in every relationship so I would suggest you to go and get her otherwise u might lose her
answered May 31, 2017 by rockstar536 (870 points)
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Hi Himascool

You are very lucky your girlfriend offering you to fuck her asshole. In general girls do not allow to fuck their asshole. Why you do not want to fuck her, is there any problem if you are loyal with her then I think its not a big issue. In your case girls want to enjoy her relationship but you are avoiding which is not good. She have some desires and she want to fulfill with you, so I will suggest you respect her and find out the optimum solution for your future relationship its not a sin. I hope your sexual activity makes you more closed each other. Rest your own choice according to me you do not missed the opportunity.

Good Luck.
answered May 31, 2017 by kingmyaqueen (2,245 points)
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Now a days doing sexual intercourse has become a fashion for teenage boys and girls.In our times we used to mix together,hold hands of each other,kiss and embrace,suck lips and fondle penis etc.You have already penetrated your girl friend anally.You should fulfill her desires,fuck her with lubricated dotted condom.Which place you have chosen do these activities....streets or park.
answered May 31, 2017 by Motilal (7,740 points)
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It's really nice of you.not all the boys will be able to think like you.its ok to have sex after marriage.but u have to explain it to her.if she won't listen,as her man you have to consider her request.
answered May 31, 2017 by Coolcracker420 (1,260 points)
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If you do not want to do it then you should not do it but if you wish then you should fulfill her wish. She has a right to get sex from you so you have to have sex with her. I think you both need an open minded discussion to come to the conclusion. I do not find anything wrong in having sex before marriage. Why you do not want to fuck her vagina before marriage? Is there any particular reason that is bothering you to fuck her? Do you have any fear that prevents you? 

answered Jun 2, 2017 by alpesh kapdi (25,980 points)

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