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I need you advice on how to handle this Friendship.

asked May 20, 2017 in Questions by Swazsp (185 points)
edited May 20, 2017 by longhands1

I have a friend (woman) on FB (whom I knew out side the FB as well). She is in her mid 30s. She is married and has a 10 year old daughter. Her hubby is working with an MNC and mostly remains out of India.

We are close friends as we share our contact numbers and we talk almost daily. Once  she invited me to her home for coffee. I felt akward and refused to go. After that for a few days we didnt have any contact.

Last week she requested me to give tutions to her daughter. I didn't refuse but asked her to wait as I was in rush to submit my projects. She also insisited that I stay as a paying guest in her home  - which I politely denied.

Since then she is sending vey emotional WhatsApp forwards and memes saying I am ignoring her. Now I feel akward to talk her. I want to focus on my career instead of inviting trouble.

I am still confused what she wants from me as a friend? What would be your Advice?

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commented May 22, 2017 by Coolcracker420 (1,115 points)
Thanks brother for marking my answer as best one.
Stay blessed
Cool cracker.
commented May 22, 2017 by gr8gaur (1,830 points)
Your answer ?????????
commented May 23, 2017 by Coolcracker420 (1,115 points)
Yeah.i got a mail that congratulations on getting ur comments marked as best, I checked in profile ,before my points are 180.but now 205

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Clear as crystal my friend !  She wants to cheat on her husband and want you to be her accomplice. All this that you told are clear indications of her expressing interest in you. Now its up to you, if you desire her then go ahead and if not then stay clear. Friendship can be sustained without physical contact.
answered May 20, 2017 by gr8gaur (1,830 points)
selected May 22, 2017 by Swazsp
commented May 22, 2017 by gr8gaur (1,830 points)
Thanks for selecting my answer as the best.
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Its very clear she has a eye's on you now its up to you weather you want to proceed futther or not go and if she seduce u or wear reveling clothes and talk with u double meaning then u r mature enough to react according to situation
answered May 20, 2017 by Tanzeel (225 points)
commented May 22, 2017 by Swazsp (185 points)
She & me actually a gym buddy. Once I was relaxing after workout she came next to me and started her push up sets. I can see her pair in the mirror opposite to us. noticing that she turns her head to me as I was staring her at her cleavage. next few days she was doing same .Now we started exchanging smile .and one day we meet in function and formal intro had happened . Later she sent me a FB request . Then it all started.
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Bro, u r on perfect track don't leave it in any circumstances.Say her ,that u had a family to look after and a career to concentrate.if she says we can stay as friends, accept her offer(leave her immediately ,if she sings same old song). because   family  n career >sex.
All the best
Cool cracker.
answered May 21, 2017 by Coolcracker420 (1,115 points)
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She wants your penis inside her vagina so if you do not want to do that for her then ignore her and put an end to your friendship but if you want your penis to roam inside her vagina then you have a great chance. All her efforts were to bring you close to her but it seems that you are bad at picking hints. 

answered May 22, 2017 by alpesh kapdi (22,910 points)
commented May 22, 2017 by Swazsp (185 points)
Bro. Its not like I never had sex but But as conservative society I thought its not good to develop such relationship as it may create trouble in her married life
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Help your friend with whatever she needs ... Don't leave her alone ...
answered May 22, 2017 by mikef143 (350 points)

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