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Article: What women should know about giving a Man a Handjob

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asked Apr 21 in Articles by longhands1 (59,130 points)

What women should know about giving a Man a Handjob.

One interesting thing about handjobs is that they can help a man get an erection when the machine fails. Also, when mixed with oral sex, or done by both partners together – the 69 way, it can be really rewarding for both.

Oral sex is a very important part of foreplay and is becoming more popular among young couples.

Interestingly, most men would give anything for a good hand job / mouth job.

But not many women know how to go about the business in a way that the pleasure is giving out in maximum dose.

A handjob is simply helping the man to orgasm with your hands – and other parts.

Here are some tips on doing it right:

  1. The tip of the penis needs much loving. The tip of the penis is extremely sensitive and full of nerve endings. So it is the best place for a woman to focus her attention on.
  2. Lubricants are important. It is not enough to simply move your hand up and down the penis. It all gets better with lubrication, even if it’s just the regular saliva. It prevents chafing.
  3. Never forget the ridge of the penis. The area where the loose skin joins the head of the penis – the ridge, is also an extremely sensitive spot. Touching/licking/teasing that area gently also will help heat things up.
  4. Keep a regular pace. You need to keep your pace steady while giving the hand job so as to create a pleasurable rhythm. Changing pace randomly will spoil the mood and terminate building orgasms.
  5. Testicles and prostate area should not be lonely. The testicles and other areas like the lower abdomen need some loving too. So use your free hand to touch and caress these areas as you use the other to please the penis itself.
  6. Remember to be gently firm. Applying too much pressure can hurt your man seriously because the penis is also a flesh. Being gentle with a little of firmness, constantly watching his body reaction is key.
  7. The penis’ elasticity is not unlimited. If your man seems to be enjoying the hand job or mouth job, don’t be tempted to become forceful. You might end up hurting him so bad he ends in the hospital by just pulling and tugging at the penis too hard.
  8. Never ignore his body language. Always read the man’s body language – how he moans, touches you or tightens up at certain points of pleasure. The signs will guide you. You can also ask if he’s feeling good.
  9. Show interest. Oral sex should not be done like it’s just some random job or something given out of pity. You must show interested and act like you’re in it together. It adds to the pleasure.

One interesting thing about hand jobs is that they can help a man get an erection when the machine fails. Also, when mixed with oral sex, or done by both partners together – the 69 way, it can be really rewarding for both.

If you develop the habit of committing it all to him in sex, chances are that he would do the same and you both will be happier for it.

Try it.




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