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My Husband's desire for anal sex, has made me addicted for butt plug.

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asked Apr 19 in Questions by kajalvajar (120 points)
edited Apr 20 by longhands1

Hello, I am new in this Forum.

My question is: that my husband wants anal sex with me. We were married 2 years ago. We tried anal sex but could not do sucessfully at the first attempt. This was  because my anal hole was very tiny and tight. Afterwards I took the advice from my mom. She gave me some sex toys and lubricants to incresae my ass hole. My mom told me that she was also using buttplug for anal sex.

I was able to stretch my ass hole witht the help of my husband. After trying a few times, we were succesful in having anal sex .

After that time, to maintain my ass hole, I began regulary wearing toys. I feel great pleasure which is equal to vaginal sex. I was wild during anal sex and I wanted to do every day. Some times my husband was not avalible for sex, so I plugged buttplug in my ass to get enjoyment. I loved doing vaginal sex with my husband but also do anal.

I am a working woman and 6 hours outside from home. During that time I wear buttplug. I feel very comfortable and have no any issue at all. I also clean up properly and use good lubricants.

Because of my husband's wish to do anal sex with me, I am now addicted to anla sex and can't live without anal buttplug or anal sex every day.

What should I do?

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commented Apr 19 by palani (220 points)
Could anybody tell what is buttplug?
commented Apr 20 by longhands1 (59,130 points)

palani,

Please tyype buttplug or sex toys in start searching Box (on the right side).

You will get answers.

commented Apr 20 by longhands1 (59,130 points)

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Hi

If you are comfortable with the button plug then no worries I guess. Just enjoy the pleasure it gives.

Question. Does this turns you on at work also suppose if you see a handsome colleague or a guy trys to filet with you in office?

Best regards
answered Apr 20 by Tangent (245 points)
commented Apr 20 by kajalvajar (120 points)
I was comfortable with buttplug . ur question answer that when i was plug in my ass and went to office nobody know i was plugged buttplug. My ass constantly  enjoy this pleasure . but my ass look big because i wear tight cloth so curve of my ass which attract some colleagues.
commented Apr 20 by Tangent (245 points)
Thanks for the feedback. Feels good to see that people are enjoying life and work at the same time. Best regards
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Stretch your anus by two hands and use sufficient lubricant on his penis and inside your anus.He may use at least two fingers to make anus broader before penetration.I never recommend you to use butt plug.Daily anal sex is not healthy.Vaginal sex is more pleasurable.We never do anal sex.
answered Apr 20 by Motilal (4,350 points)
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Hello,

If you like anal sex as well as vaginal sex you should continue both of them as your husband and you both get pleasure. You should clean your genital area and toys on a regular basis.

I also using buttplug in working hours to get constant pleasure. Many working women use these toys now-a-days.

But one thing is that any thing yiu do, do not get habituated to it, otherwise in the long run, you will have problems. One option yiu can do is have vaginal sex and not to do anal sex everyday.

If you are using buttplug, your anus sphincter muscles can become loose due to long time wearing it. Sometimes it cannot hold shit and embarrass you in a public place.

If you are comfortable you can use it every day.

Best of Luck.

answered Apr 20 by chikukaju (135 points)
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I would suggest you to discontinue butt pulg coz if you use the butt plug regularly you will get habitual to that and within a duration you will not get excited even after anal sex, and don't worry about your anus since you are doing anal sex regularly your anus will stay lose
answered Apr 21 by rockstar536 (140 points)
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Nothing wrong as you are not involving any other person..enjoy
answered Apr 21 by deep30 (110 points)
commented Apr 21 by kajalvajar (120 points)
Thank you for ur advice.

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