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How to get over my attraction towards mature women?

asked Apr 15, 2017 in Questions by Jaswanth (120 points)
edited Apr 17, 2017 by longhands1

I am 18 years old. I used to watch porn and read sex stories. Unfortunately, I got attracted and fantasized about having sex with mature women.

How do I get rid of this problem? Can anyone please guide me about the right steps I should take?

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Almost every other person has some fetishes and you have for mature woman. I dont think a fetish is a bad thing unless and until it creates trouble for the one you fall for. Enjoy it inside you..fantasize it and masturbate but do not trouble anyone.
answered Apr 15, 2017 by sharmanatasha87 (925 points)
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Best would be make a schedule for gym or sports and try to build your health. It could work both ways you will be able to attract many ladies and also if you manage to focus on building your body you might be distracted from all these thoughts.

The main way out is to take your mind away from all this for the time being. You are young and full of adrenal. Use this to benefit you rather holding you back all the time, thinking of something which is not real.

Best regards
answered Apr 16, 2017 by Tangent (515 points)
commented Apr 16, 2017 by Jaswanth (120 points)
Thanq tangent
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This is formative period of your life.Concentrate your mind to studies.Stop reading sex stories and watching porn.You will get enough time to do these activities.You are too young to fantasise mature women.Whenever you feel arousal,calm yourself by masturbation.It should not be done more than twice per week.I have followed this rule.I have also felt attraction for matured women in late thirties,after getting pleasures of sex with wife.
answered Apr 16, 2017 by Motilal (8,035 points)
commented Apr 16, 2017 by Jaswanth (120 points)
Tq 4 ur guidelines
commented Apr 16, 2017 by Jaswanth (120 points)
when n with whom I can hav the pleasure
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Actually, there are no certain steps to get rid of certain things, be it living or non-living things but self-control may help you so if you want to get rid of it then self-control is the only way to do it. However, one thing you should keep in mind that you are not alone in that category so be relaxed and do not worry too much. Most of the men do get attracted towards mature women and you are one of them. The reasons behind getting attracted towards mature women are various. 

answered Apr 16, 2017 by alpesh kapdi (27,390 points)

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