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Will I become gay if I wear my aunty's underwear?

asked Mar 2, 2017 in Questions by Hemsworth (160 points)
edited Mar 4, 2017 by longhands1

I am 27. I have a sexual relationship with my aunt for the last 3 years. She has a 5 year old son. My uncle lives in Chennai as he is working there. My aunt and I have sex everyday.

My aunt loves to wear my underwear and I like to wear hers. One day, my female friend noticed my aunt's underwear from under my pant. I told her not to make fun of me and told her about my affair and our fetish of wearing each other's underwear.

She told me that I would become gay in future if I continuously wear my aunt's underwear. Is this true? I enjoy my aunt s underwear and even put her whisper pads in my underwear when I use them, just for fun.

Please advide me if what my friend said is true? Can I continue doing this as we are not hurting anyone?

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This sort of behaviour is called fetishism.People smell or wear and like garments of others.By doing so none is behaving like gay,no chance of becoming gay.It is better to forego this habit.

answered Mar 2, 2017 by Motilal (6,655 points)
edited Mar 3, 2017 by longhands1
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Hi, cross dressing is a fantasy nothing like u will become gay but once in a while OK to wear but ur question says u r wearing daily means u r habituated now, try to avoid as it will embaress you

answered Mar 2, 2017 by Pravy (105 points)
edited Mar 3, 2017 by longhands1
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One thing you should understand that you are not alone who wears women’s undergarments so be relaxed as that would not make you gay. Men like to touch women’s panty and bra as that would give pleasure and many men would like to wear them because of it smooth fabric.

Keep wearing her underwear and enjoy it without thinking too much as too much thinking is not good for you. You should not buy your friend’s argument that if you continuously wear it then in the future you would become a gay as there is not truthiness behind it. 

answered Mar 3, 2017 by alpesh kapdi (23,225 points)
edited Mar 3, 2017 by longhands1
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Your friend absolutely wrong that you will become gay if you wear girls underwear don't believe such comments
It's common fetish among boys to wear used panty of their aunts girlfriend etc

Your are doing a great jobs don't stop wearing your aunty panty it's very pleasurable job which your are doing
Your should try to seduce your aunt and take her to bed and spread here legs and fuck her hard

answered Mar 3, 2017 by pavan350 (1,075 points)
edited Mar 3, 2017 by longhands1
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Your colleague told you that you will turn gay because gay is synonymous to being girl in India and you did the same by wearing your aunt's undies. You did a very bad thing by telling about your affair to her.

I think you should keep it as a secret and not tell anyone. Such kind of relationship should exist only for 20 minutes while you hare having sex and then return to having a relationship of aunt-nephew.

Be careful in the future and don't show your female undies to anyone.

answered Mar 3, 2017 by maya75n (655 points)
edited Mar 3, 2017 by longhands1
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Good you asked us. Else you would have always felt you are doing something that would change your sexuality. Studies have shown that it is more common for a straight man to wear female undergarments than one who identifies as gay. It was found that in a Study conducted, 75% of straight men, had worn, would wear or regularly wear women’s underwear, lingerie and or clothing

Since a women's underwear is lace, satin or silk, and men's underwear is usually cotton, it's not surprising that there are men who prefer women's underwear. There are women who prefer to wear men's boxers or briefs, and men who prefer to wear women's panties.

You are lucky that your Aunt has no objections in you wearing her underwear and actually encourages you to do so, by wearing yours. It reflects the bond you both share of closeness and a reminder of each other when you are wearing each other’s clothing.

"Cross-dressing," which is generally defined as wearing the clothes of the opposite sex, is not indicative of homosexuality. Ask your female friend to register on our Site and improve her knowledge on sexual matters.

But one doubt crosses my mind. How was your friend able to peep into your pants and notice what you are wearing. Is she your girlfriend? Another doubt…are you able to get sexually aroused even if you are not wearing her panties? Or is it a must for you to get aroused? Do you also wear her bra or is t only her panties?  If you cannot have an orgasm without wearing her 's panties then you need to seek sex therapy and relationship counseling to help you enjoy sexual orgasms in other ways.

Do not be ashamed of what you are doing. As long as you are not hurting anyone, it is fine.

answered Mar 3, 2017 by longhands1 (78,045 points)
edited Mar 3, 2017 by longhands1
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Your friend is wrong. You are doing a great jobs don't stop. Wearing your aunty's panty is very pleasurable job which your are doing.

Your should try to seduce your aunt and take her to bed and spread her legs and fuck her hard.
answered Mar 19, 2017 by Govardhan (110 points)

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