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Answering your private questions, A message from sexysalma

asked Feb 16, 2017 in Questions by sexysalma (14,995 points)
edited Feb 16, 2017 by sexysalma
Hello everybody,

I have two basic points to make:-

1,     If you send me a private message, expecting me to reply, please do not disable your Private message facility in your profile, as once you do this, I am unable to reply to anything that you have sent me. As a general rule on this website, we expect our users to have their private message facility switched on. From time to time the moderator or editors may need to contact individuals, and we cannot do this unless you have enabled the Private message facility. If you disable it, don't expect any response to a private message that you may have sent prior to switching off the facility.

2.     I am sure that I am not alone in this situation, and I must tell people here and now: you have no right to demand that I or any of the other editors or the moderator reply to questions that you may post. You are not paying us anything, this is not a subscription service, you join free of charge, and the moderator and all of us editors give up our valuable time for no reward, other than that of being able to help people with their problems. You may think that your question is absolutely and vitally important, but not everybody shares your opinion. I answer questions if I find them interesting, and if I think I can contribute in any useful way. It stays in my profile that I am not about to answer questions about masturbation, penis size, and so on. But I maintain that I have a right to decide who I talk to, and who I don't. The more people demand from me, the less likely I am to be forthcoming with any kind of answer. So stop making demands. If I find you interesting, and I have the time, I will reply, but if not, that is my right.

I received a private message this morning, and it concerned prostitution. I cannot reply, because the sender disabled their private message facility. This is just the latest example of someone asking a question, but then denying themselves the opportunity of getting any kind of answer. It happens far too frequently. If you are reading this, re-enable it, and get in touch with me again.

commented Feb 17, 2017 by Motilal (7,740 points)
I endorse your views.

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I agreed to you Salma. Even it happened with me also. I was having discussion with one of member regularly and abruptly that member turned PM off. It's devastating feeling.
answered Feb 16, 2017 by Raj Handsome (1,430 points)
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Hi madam
I appreciate all the efforts taken by you and other moderators and editors for this website.
One small query can't there be an inbox for every user so that he or she can get the private messages in inbox.

answered Feb 16, 2017 by dangerboy5 (450 points)
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Some members are disappearing,some are playing hide and seek game with PM option,some are personally interested to know personal mail ID,some ask for opening duplicate ID,some people are vanishing and coming with another user name.Whom to trust,is million dollar betting....
answered Feb 17, 2017 by Motilal (7,740 points)
commented Feb 17, 2017 by Raj Handsome (1,430 points)
Haha....True fact Sir....
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You have made a timely Post.

I once again reiterate that a User who disables his/her PM (Personal Message) has an ulterior motive in doing so.  

This Site does not encourage Questions and Answers through PM. If you have something to ask or say, do it on the Forum so that all Users benefit from your Question or Answers. PM should be strictly used for exchanging information on Sites or Brand Names of Products that we do not permit on the Forum.

I have seen some Users asking another to come on PM so that they can give advice. This is fishy and uncalled for. We do not encourage Sex Chats or exchange of sex experiences on PM.   

The Internet allows sufficient anonymity and our Site does not ask for Name or Proof of Identity in the Profile, so I definitely see no reason for anyone asking for Personal Advice through PM, for fear of being recognized.

In any case, any User who has turned OFF the PM, will not be warned henceforth, but the Account will be closed.

answered Feb 19, 2017 by longhands1 (83,745 points)

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