I have two basic points to make:-
1, If you send me a private message, expecting me to reply, please do not disable your Private message facility in your profile, as once you do this, I am unable to reply to anything that you have sent me. As a general rule on this website, we expect our users to have their private message facility switched on. From time to time the moderator or editors may need to contact individuals, and we cannot do this unless you have enabled the Private message facility. If you disable it, don't expect any response to a private message that you may have sent prior to switching off the facility.
2. I am sure that I am not alone in this situation, and I must tell people here and now: you have no right to demand that I or any of the other editors or the moderator reply to questions that you may post. You are not paying us anything, this is not a subscription service, you join free of charge, and the moderator and all of us editors give up our valuable time for no reward, other than that of being able to help people with their problems. You may think that your question is absolutely and vitally important, but not everybody shares your opinion. I answer questions if I find them interesting, and if I think I can contribute in any useful way. It stays in my profile that I am not about to answer questions about masturbation, penis size, and so on. But I maintain that I have a right to decide who I talk to, and who I don't. The more people demand from me, the less likely I am to be forthcoming with any kind of answer. So stop making demands. If I find you interesting, and I have the time, I will reply, but if not, that is my right.
I received a private message this morning, and it concerned prostitution. I cannot reply, because the sender disabled their private message facility. This is just the latest example of someone asking a question, but then denying themselves the opportunity of getting any kind of answer. It happens far too frequently. If you are reading this, re-enable it, and get in touch with me again.