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Can I sleep with my widowed mother?

asked Jan 19, 2017 in Questions by parth701 (120 points)
edited Jan 20, 2017 by longhands1


My name is Parth, 24 years old. I'm new here and reading incest related topics from last 2-3 days and now I just cant stop thoughts of having an incest relation with my mother.

Actually, i have Anxiety problems so am not able to talk or have a relationship with any girl. I even cannot speak with strangers. I just feel very shy.

So here is my question: Is it ok to have sexual thoughts about my mother? My mother is a widow since last 15+ years. I never had full sex, but have kissed and played with private parts of my sister and cousin. Now my sister is married so, we only 2 people are living together - Me and my mom.

I have never seen my mother in a sexual way, but after reading too many Stories and some people's questions, now I cant stop thinking about this. I dont want to force or try to seduce her in anyway, but if my mother is ready for sexual relation than should i do it?

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One thing you should understand that what you want to do is morally and ethically wrong so you should not do in the first place but I appreciate that you do not want to force her, which is good. If she gives you her consent then it is up to you whether to have sex with her or not as sometimes I find there is nothing wrong in a sexual relationship with two adults if both want it.

Do not forget that what you are thinking is morally wrong but that does not mean that people are not into such act. Incest relationships do exist in this world so you are not alone if you fuck your own mother. If you are able to handle the guilt part later on for having sex with your own mother then you can think of getting into her pants. It is up to you how you see the subject, if you think that you are having sex with a mature woman with her full consent then it is right for you. You should not think about the society’s perspective otherwise it is a complete unethical act. 

answered Jan 20, 2017 by alpesh kapdi (22,870 points)
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It is good that you don't want to force her. But incest t is OK if both are equally and fully cosensous.There are some tips. 1. Tell her you get night dreams of marrying her and sleeping with her.If she allows , start non sexual hugs and kisses, later on to lips and sensitive areas. If no problem from her side, proceed to sex. Don' make her pregnant. If pregnancy is her fear not to allow you, show her condom. No mother is  going to hate her son for asking sex. Maximum risk is one shouting if she does not like. Remember you will get from no other 'love tunnel' the ecstasy and pleasure that you get from your own mom's when you spurt out your 'thick milk' into it as the love and intimacy between both of u is so strong.
answered Jan 20, 2017 by kunjumon57 (425 points)
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Your mother must be about 45 or more.You are sufficiently grown up now.At this age mother and son shouldn't sleep together..Accidentally either of you may get aroused.It will be difficult for you or her to suppress the passion.Immediately stop sleeping together and reading pornographic books.Never lust your mother.
answered Jan 20, 2017 by Motilal (6,465 points)
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This urge towards your mother is one-sided. Do you think your mom ever showed indication of any sexual advance towards you. If no, then forget about her and try to reestablish your connection for sex with your married sister and cousin - that should be rewarding. And I am sure they will respond to your desire.  Having said this, yes, your mom do have occasional sexual urge to meet. You may be closer with her by hugging and kissing with non-sexual overtones and wait for her reaction. If it is positive, then proceed to prepare her ... first by sharing her bed.
answered Jan 22, 2017 by zena69 (1,825 points)
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As she is a widow ,if she is deserving for sex then you can make a move..  After doing it you both need to face the guilt feelings. Both of you think about it
answered Jan 22, 2017 by shivarohan (200 points)

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