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Have some doubts about Uncircumcised penis and sexual Fantasies. Help.

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asked Jan 19, 2017 in Questions by pud_puller (120 points)
edited Jan 20, 2017 by longhands1

Hey there ! My age is 23 yrs and I hail from North India. I am unmarried and never had even a relationship.

I have a series of questions, please help me :

1. I had started masturbating and had never tried to pull back the foreskin when I was really young. At that time I didn't know what circumcision is? I only knew that all penisis are the same and just different in size. After some time, I came to know the differences between circumcised and uncircumcised penis.

Now, when I try to retract the foreskin, I feel loads of pain. After huge effort, the skin remains back tugged under the walls of the head of penis but in that condition, I am not able to masturbate as the skin around is too tight. It goes ahead and then if I try to put it back, I feel the pain again. Would I have to suffer pain whole life ? Would I be able to enjoy sex with my partner in future? Would it cause STD to have sex in that condition ?

2.Should I be worried about my penis size ? What would most female like, passionate love making session or a hard and rough pure sex ?

3. Besides pornography, I haven't seen a nude female. If in my daily life, if I see a not so amazing normal girl also, I get turned on and this has put me in some really embarassing situations. Is this normal? Is it a psychological problem? Am I becoming a paedophile or something?

4. Some years ago, I started reading all kind of sex stories and also started watching all kind of kinky porn. Is it wrong if I imagine myself or my to be better half in the same situation which I read and masturbate? These actually have become my fantasies.

Now , the question is: Would a lady ever accept a man who has such sexual desires and would she help him fulfill them ?

Please help me. I would really appreciate some piece of advice from everyone around who would have gone through my situation.

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If you feel pain during the masturbation then you would not be able to have sex in this condition with your partner that means with an uncircumcised penis so you should go for an operation to get circumcised penis.

You should not worry about the operation as it is a minor one and you will be recovered in a day or two.  You can discuss your problem with your doctor and follow his advice. If you are living with your parents then you have to let them know about it and your father would be the best person for that. There is no need to be ashamed about it as it is not that you done anything wrong.

There is no need to be worried about the size of the penis as it is not in your hand and you can satisfy your partner with whatever size you have so just be relaxed.

Your fantasies are normal and you should be bothered about it as you can imagine anyone to get stimulated and then go for the masturbation. Overall, you need to see the doctor for your uncircumcised penis. 

answered Jan 20, 2017 by alpesh kapdi (27,390 points)
commented Jan 20, 2017 by Raj Handsome (1,430 points)
Alpesh,

Will the operation lead to any side effects?
How much time is required for the operation?
How much is the approximate cost for the operation?

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