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I shall be meeting my childhood crush after 6 years. How to meet her?

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asked Jan 14, 2017 in Questions by ddragon (150 points)
edited Jan 17, 2017 by longhands1

I had a crush in my 10th class on a girl, but I didn't tell her as I wanted to concentrate on my studies. Now I am completing my B.E degree in Pune.

I am from mumbai so I live in Pune in a hostel. After 6 years, I met my childhood crush on instagram and to my luck, she is also here in Pune for her studies.

Now my question is: I still love her like before. She gave me her Contact No, but whenever I text her she does not reply and whenever I call she says she will call in an hour, but never does. I really want her in my life.

What should I do to make her feel special? We are planning to meet soon. What should I do on our first meet ? I am impatiently waiting for your ideas and suggestions.

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It sounds that she is not into you and she does not want to do anything with you otherwise she would have not avoided your texts and calls. However, it might be possible that she is not into phone calls so you can decide whether you need to pursue her not once you meet her. There is no need to do anything special for her on your first meeting as that might make things awkward between you both if she is not looking for any romantic relationship with you.

Just go on to meet her and try to be relaxed there, do not give her any hints that you are interested in her but talk on the matter you both feel comfortable. Your first meeting will make everything clear whether you can get her in your life or not. If the meeting goes well and You get along well with each other then try to make a plan to meet second time and if she shows interested then go to the dinner and then movie so she would understand your desire to be with her.

However, if you think that you can handle the clumsiness then you can express your feelings to her on the first meeting but choose the indirect way and if she reciprocates then you can take it from there. The only thing I would like to suggest you, do not expect too much and take things slowly with her at the pace you both feel okay because she might not be the same girl as she was years back when you both were in the school. 

answered Jan 15, 2017 by alpesh kapdi (23,885 points)
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Look mate, if it happened once or twice (not replying to your texts and calls) then you can not make much of it. But if she regularly avoids your texts and calls then nothing much is there from her side. Maybe you've displayed your cards too soon.

My advice is to take the back seat and let her initiate things this time. If she does, don't act too interested and be normal. If she doesn't, you have your answer. Last thing you really want is to act desperate and come across as a creep. Man up and call it a day. If she's still acting pricey then go cold, not worthy of your attention bro.
answered Jan 15, 2017 by gr8gaur (1,950 points)
commented Jan 15, 2017 by ddragon (150 points)
Actually i have written that she don't text me but she receive my calls and we talk daily the day from we come to know about each other
commented Jan 16, 2017 by gr8gaur (1,950 points)
There you go, she receives your call daily but how many times you receive her call? Out of 10, how many times do you call her and how many times she calls you? I bet you every single time its you who call her, right ? That means its a one way traffic my friend. Even if you feel she's special then also there should be reciprocation of feelings. Don't call her for a day or two and see if she calls you.

The point is even if you two are going to meet, you can't make much of it if its just you initiating everything. Make this meet special, enjoy yourselves but after it ends don't ask for another meet, let her initiate this time, let her say 'we should meet again'.
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I think you need to socially get around and meet other girls.  If you had a girlfriend now, you would not be thinking about someone from the past.

Its unhealthy to obsess  over a female.
answered Jan 15, 2017 by blind_man (160 points)

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