Is my friend's wife just leading me on?

Question

Hi,

I am from Delhi. This question is about my friend’s wife. My friend and I are working in the same office. My friend's wife and I meet every day at their home.

In the absence of her husband, she teases me by using double meaning words. She has already told me about her sex life with her husband, such as suhagrat’s story, even her brotherr's and relatives’ sex life and extramarital affairs story shared with me.

I want to bed her, but afraid because I’m not clear what she want from me. Whenever I start double meaning words she ignores it or does not reply. I’m totally confused, please help me to know will she spread her legs for me or is she only playing with me?

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Answer 1

If she does not reciprocate your moves then it might be possible that she has an attention seeking behavior and she enjoys your attentions but when you try to take bold steps towards her, she backs off to avoid you. I think you need to clear with her as her behavior is confusing.

If you want to fuck her then this is the best opportunity but if you are caught then your friendship and reputation would be at the stake. You need to calculate everything as sooner or later her husband will find out what has been happening with his wife and between you. However, description instigates me to say that you want to have sex with her no matter whether your friend would break up or not so go ahead and the risk of the friendship. 

Answer 2

Your friend's wife is showing her weakness towards you.She is sharing personal matters with you.Tell her that you also want her.Praise her beauty, face,lips and boobs.Go ahead start from top to bottom.Apply a bit of caution.Proceed slowly,to arouse her passion through foreplay.Tickle her clitoris with finger or tongue....she will spread her legs to fulfill your desire.

Answer 3

Most indian men have few or limited experiences with women , and are absolutely at sea trying to figure out what a woman is saying.

Have you had experiences / affairs with multiple women  at a time and place of your  own choosing ?

If not,  its highly likely you are mis-interpreting her signals. Or , even if you are reading her signals right, you will make a mess of it, and likely land in trouble.

And plus this is your friends wife. you need to have some principles, to get any respect from anyone

Answer 4

There is only one way just wait and see ,she should feel you are secret keeping person after which she will automatically ready .Simply ask her straight forward and give her your commitments .Since she is already into teasing she will take time and answer you .Don't take long time for this other wise somebody else will ride on this is sure from her habits .Since women get into sex with people whom they dont love also easily under circumstances and she is one among them only.

Secondly since her husband is working with same office were you are working I would recommend either you change a new job because he is going to kick you once he comes to know no man is a fool in this world and further She may be loose in talk only according to me can be physiological only not sex seeking always.Some women have this behaviors due to chemicals secreted in body and brain,thyroid and many other issues only they are not always seeking sex .

So ask her frankly ,risk your life cleverly and live your life safely otherwise things will be ending with disaster.