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How to forget my Girlfriend's past?

asked Jan 10, 2017 in Questions by Bhargab Nath (495 points)
edited Jan 11, 2017 by longhands1

Hello Sir /Madam,

Namaskar! I am 21 years old and my girlfriend is 20. We have been in a relationship for the last 4 months. She had two boyfriends earlier. She told me that she had kissed both of them.

Till today, we have kissed 4 times till today and one day except for fucking, all things happened between us….like boobs pressing and sucking. She has also sucked my dick. Now the problem is that 3 days ago, I saw one of her Ex.

Since then my mind is not working. Every time, I am thinking that he kissed my girlfriend once upon a time. Why is this thinking coming in my mind again and again?

How to overcome this? Please help me.

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commented Jan 12, 2017 by Bhargab Nath (495 points)
she is my first gf ...and I didn't proposed her first...she proposed me ...and yes she is not touch with her ex(s) ....she is only in touch with me ....and love me soo soo much ....
commented Jan 13, 2017 by k.shastri (1,035 points)
Leave her and move ahead. Her past will keep you bothering for your entire life, if you decide to stay with her.

It's better for you both to live separate lives.

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You should understand that you have nothing to do with her past so do not think too much about her past. What she did in her past it was her right to do so at that time. Focus on your relationship rather than thinking something negative concerning the relationship. You cannot undo her past so better to accept it and move on. With time, you would start doing well so stay focused on your relationship.

Shift your focus on the meaningful things and work on your feelings. There is no need to forget her past as you will not be able to do so rather accept it as a fact without justifying it and move on. If you are judging your girlfriend based on her past then you should stop doing so as it is really unfair from your part. The important thing is that she is with you and not with her ex.

You should judge her based on her current behavior with you and how she is committed towards the relationship. There are many important things in the relationship, which required your attention. I would say you are the phase of your relationship where people often ruin the relationship for no real reason so it is time for you to make your relationship even stronger. 

answered Jan 11, 2017 by alpesh kapdi (25,205 points)
selected Jan 13, 2017 by Bhargab Nath
commented Jan 11, 2017 by Raj Handsome (1,430 points)
Nice suggestion Alpesh
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Is she your first girlfriend? If not then did you kissed your first girlfriend ever ? And if you had a girlfriend before should your present one be bothered about it ? Past was past, you can't change it, the only thing that should concern you is whether your girlfriend is in touch with her ex(s)? If not then relax and enjoy.
answered Jan 11, 2017 by gr8gaur (2,035 points)
commented Jan 11, 2017 by Raj Handsome (1,430 points)
Nice suggestion
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In our times girl friends were very rare.Now it appears that every body is born with a girl friend.Similarly all girls have a boy friend.Kissing,pressing and sucking of boobs,holding and sucking of penis then fucking has become essential.None of the boy friend or girl friend remain satisfied with one.Don't take that kissing episode seriously.She is not your exclusive property.
answered Jan 11, 2017 by Motilal (7,420 points)

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