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How can I start wearing sleeveless dresses?

asked Dec 31, 2016 in Questions by nimisha112 (145 points)
edited Jan 2, 2017 by longhands1

I am 36 years old and married. I come from a conservative back ground. I feel very nice wearing sleeveless tops. I wear it when no one is at home.

I like to wear sleeveless nighties at home and surroundings when not at work. But I am embarrassed to wear it in front of family members and nighbours. My husband's brother and parents stay with us in my home.

How to start wearing this type of dresses? What are the things to be observed before wearing sleeveless dresses?

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commented Jan 2, 2017 by nimisha112 (145 points)
I don't shave my armpits and my figure is 38-30-40

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Only one thing you need before wearing sleeveless dresses and that is confidence in yourself. You can start with sleeveless nighties in the night when your husband is around you and when you get comfortable before your husband, start wearing sleeveless dresses in front of your family members.

The first few times you may feel awkward but once you are into it, you would be fine so do not worry and let me tell you are not alone who wears such dresses so just gather some self-belief and wear it. However, you may talk to your husband about your wish to wear such dresses so he can make you feel good about it. 

answered Jan 2, 2017 by alpesh kapdi (23,885 points)
selected Feb 24, 2017 by nimisha112
commented Jan 2, 2017 by nimisha112 (145 points)
Thanks for reply
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Dear Nimisha,

Confidence in good measure not only dilutes embarrassment, but nullifies its presence.

Grooming is extremely important. Keep your armpits clean shaven, use a good deo.

Start off with something modest, no large gaps for peeping toms. And do it on a warm weekend or so. Take your husband into confidence.

Talk to your mother-in-law and tell her that it helps you feel at home and not at work!! Make it a non-issue and you will be able to easily pull it off.
answered Jan 1, 2017 by Logical_Guru (235 points)
commented Jan 2, 2017 by nimisha112 (145 points)
I never shave armpits... Will it be a problem?
commented Jan 3, 2017 by neeraj123 (1,560 points)
if you wear sleeveless all your armpit hair will be visible to all so if you want to wear sleveless regularly shave your armpit hairs.
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You have not said what your husband’s views are. Is he also conservative? You need to get him onto your side. That will be half the battle won. Have you tried wearing these sleeveless clothes in his presence?

You also need to ensure that you are physically fit and well groomed. Clothes only tell half the picture. Dressing up is your choice and you should be willing to stand up for your beliefs. Your husband’s brother if he is young, could be your friend and accomplice. He may be the most willing to accept your dress choice. It may not be easy to convince his parents as they may not be of that age where they will accept modern ideas.

You should start wearing these dresses in the comfort of your bedroom at night in the presence of your husband and watch for his reaction and then be prepared to convince him that he need sto give you the frredom.

answered Jan 1, 2017 by longhands1 (80,430 points)
commented Jan 2, 2017 by nimisha112 (145 points)
Husband is OK with me wearing small dresses...and he had given me 4-5 dresses also...but I'm confused
commented Jan 2, 2017 by longhands1 (80,430 points)


What are you confused about? If you have the green signal from your husband...go ahead. Have confidence in what you do.

It will make you feel better and sexier. Your husband will see the change in you. I read about your not shaving armpits. That is your choice. But if you intend wearing sleeveless then armpits need to be shaved. Also shave your vagina. Give your husband a surprise. Get him to lick your vagina and see the change in both of you. 

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In a conservative family you should honour the wishes of the family.The opinion of your husband counts much.I support the use of  sleeveless nighties.As far as office and outdoor is concerned,my thinking is different.Less exposure in sleeveless dress is desirable,excess exposure is bad.
answered Jan 2, 2017 by Motilal (7,010 points)
commented Jan 3, 2017 by nimisha112 (145 points)
Thanks for answer
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I agree sleeveless outfits are comfortable to the wearer, both men and women.

But sleeveless tops look erotic and seductive and give servants or other men a chance to stare at your body. If you yourseves are feeling embarassed to wear in front of others, better to avoid it.
answered Jun 26, 2017 by solliadi (2,235 points)

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