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How should I approach my cousin sister to be my girlfriend?

asked Dec 28, 2016 in Questions by udeshya (120 points)
edited Dec 29, 2016 by longhands1

My cousin sister is 2 years older than me. She recently had a breakup. I really like her as a person but I dont lust about her. I really want to make her happy by becoming her boyfriend. We both share almost everything to each other including our love life, except our sex life

Please help me how to approach her?

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Well its a good thing that you love her but I would suggest you to refrain from it. You can not marry her in the end. It will create tension for both of u. In case of a sexual affair it is diffrent because you think of just sex and once you start getting sex from somewhere else, you do not worry about that relationship again. I am in sexual affair with my sister and we share the only sibling love. We do not like to be gf bf . We never intend to marry as it is impossible. For sex it is different for love it is different. If you want to have sex only than it is a different thing.
answered Dec 29, 2016 by robotboy1 (690 points)
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You do not need to be her boyfriend to make her happy and she will not be happy with you as her boyfriend so I would say drop the idea of making her happy by becoming her boyfriend. Since she recently had a break up, she would need some time to process her thoughts before entering into a new relationship.

Moreover, you like her as a person and you do not lust over her so there is no need to be in a relationship of girlfriend boyfriend as without lust and sex every relationship is a friendship so be her friend and make her happy by listening her and providing her emotional support.

Be there whenever she needs you. She is your cousin sister so such kind of relationship is not possible between you both. Do not disclose your feelings to make her your girlfriend to her otherwise you would definitely lose a true friend. If you want to see her happy then friendship can make it possible. 

answered Dec 29, 2016 by alpesh kapdi (22,860 points)
commented Dec 29, 2016 by udeshya (120 points)
But my feelings towards her didnt developed after her breakup... rather they are too old even when she was in the relationship.. its hard to feel differently.
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You have stated that you have no lustful feelings for your cousin is curious to me that you have changed your sane sense into insane tactics....and want to approach for sex.She is in distress,it is your duty to make her comfortable.For what purpose you want to approach her.You posses some evil motive....never go ahead.
answered Dec 29, 2016 by Motilal (6,460 points)

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