My Girlfriend watches Threesome Porn secretly. Should I question her about it?

Question

Hi everyone,

My concern is about my girl friend. We are in a long distance relationship for lasst 3years. At the risk of sounding sexually insecure, I'm a little bit worried about my Girlfriend and the porn she watches.

I've noticed recently that she's been watching a lot of threesome porn, both MFF and MMF. If it's strictly fantasy and it gets her off, I suppose thats fine. I watch some crazy porn when I am in the mood too. But I worry that she may eventually want to make it more than fantasy, and I'm hoping to have something long term with this girl. I don't think a threesome, whether MFF or MMF would be healthy for us at all.

I haven't talked with her about it at all. Sometimes she says she hates watching porn, but she does secretly.

Do you think it's an issue? Or just a fantasy and nothing to stress about?

Thanks in advance.

Answer 1

Hello Prasad,

Generally people do watch different genres of porn. And porns are fantasies. Just like how regular movies contain characters which generally aren't possible practically outside in real world. Maybe threesome porn arouses your girlfriend. But it doesn't mean that she's going to do it. Watching it on screen and doing it in real life are two very different things. Now whether she wants to try it or not, only her heart knows. I think she may never want to try it. Try to connect to her more emotionally and open her up. Communication is very important in any relationship if you are planning for long term relationships.

Good luck,
Sadiq khan

Comments

Mr.Sadiq Khan, thanks a lot. This is exactly what I wanted to hear. I appreciate for your time and suggestion.