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How should I approach my beautiful neighbour bhabhi?

asked Dec 12, 2016 in Questions by addictedtosex91 (120 points)
edited Dec 14, 2016 by longhands1


I am 25 years old. Now a days, I am very tensed because I am in love with my neighbour bhabhi who is 28-30 years old.she has a kid whom she picks from school everyday at 1 pm.

I see her regularly and now she also knows that I always keep looking at her. Sometimes she also looks into my eyes for few seconds continuously and sometimes she smiles that makes me so crazy and she also comes in my dream. I am totally in love with her but dont knw how to approach her. I have never talked to her till now.

Guys.after approaching her, will I be able to manage everything and make her ready for love making. I dont know how to tyake the very first step.

Please suggest.

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If you don't know how to take first step with neighbour Bhabhi then it is not good to approach for sex.Be more mature and bold,gain more knowledge from sex books.Desire to fuck a girl or lady is not a sign of love.It is something different.Smiling doesn't mean that she like you.Change your outlook and remain happy.
answered Dec 12, 2016 by Motilal (6,460 points)
commented Dec 23, 2016 by addictedtosex91 (120 points)
if u cant motivate someone then plz dont demoralize ..thank u
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Whether you will be able to make her ready for love making or not is depends on how you share a friendship with her so the first thing you should do is, try to be her friend and make her comfortable with you. It is not an easy thing to make a married woman for sex so do not focus on sex at this stage. It is good that she looks in your eyes and smiles at you.

You should put all your efforts into how to be friends with her. Once she comes close to you, you can think on taking further steps. When you see her next time say her hi and ask her to be your friend. If she shows a willingness to be your friend then take the things from there.

She did not send any indication that she is looking for an intimate relationship with you so do not overanalyze her smile at you too much because it might not mean anything. However, there are chances that she likes you so being a man it is your duty to take further steps as being a woman she did what she has to do to give you an indication towards friendship.

Once she becomes your friend you can come here on the subject of how to make her ready for sex. Therefore, it is too early to predict whether she wants sex with you or not. I would like to advise you take a first step first. 

answered Dec 14, 2016 by alpesh kapdi (22,860 points)
commented Dec 23, 2016 by addictedtosex91 (120 points)
thanks Alpesh..:)
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Your love will vanish as soon as you'll find another hot bhabhi to ogle at. More than her beauty, its her marital status that makes her more appealing. As for your chance with her, it all depends on your looks and your skills with women. And I repeat, women and not girls.
answered Dec 14, 2016 by gr8gaur (1,830 points)
commented Dec 23, 2016 by addictedtosex91 (120 points)
no bro.  it will nt vanish.  its a special case
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Your 1st step should be to atleast start talking to her. This could start from normal hi/hello during your eye contacts. After this try to get more friendly with her and soon she will start having trust in you and things will move .... its your skills how you tackle a married woman. Be gentle with her always and add some humor in your talks and most importantly always stay confident in front of her.
Try this and see how things proceed.
Good Luck.
answered Dec 15, 2016 by mukul_rusty (480 points)
commented Dec 23, 2016 by addictedtosex91 (120 points)
thanks fr ur suggestion :)
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Dear A,

She may be noticed your action but until and unless you start some effort she may not come to you. As you both have opportunity to meet each other so you have to start talking with her. There are cases in which some women want to fill up the gaps vacated by their husbands either due to negligence of their husband or the women’s desire is beyond limit.

The way you start the relationship will decide the future of your relationship. The friendship is the busy way to start a relationship with a married woman. She will be feeling excited when a young boy approach to her for friendship. She may be thinking that you are attracted towards her hot/sexy/beautiful body.

After the start try to talk with her and avoid speaking in public places because that action may hamper her reputation and you both may be caught. Its better to talk through social network sites/mobiles.

There are cases in which the woman may talk to you for friendship but will not agree to share you in bed so you have to prepare for this. After all you have to respect her feelings as you are living her. 

answered Dec 22, 2016 by bubu_002 (2,735 points)

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