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Is Polygamy wrong?

asked Dec 2, 2016 in Questions by ROYALPK (140 points)
edited Dec 3, 2016 by longhands1

I am 57 years old and my wife is 55 years. She has no interest for sex. I am in a sexual relationship with a lady of 42 years, for the last two years. She is married.

I have been treating her as my second wife. She is very sexually active. As per law, polygamy is not allowed. Please tell me ways of maintaining two wives without my wife knowing about my Mistress.

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I strongly oppose polygamy,your legal wife is still alive. She has no interest in sex,it is nothing unusual,discuss the problem mutually.You may get better results or go for marriage counselling.You are seriously involved with another lady,doing highly injustice to your wife.Casual extramarital sex is not so bad and it happens now and then.I too involved in this act but never neglected my wife.She is mother of my daughter and son.
answered Dec 3, 2016 by Motilal (6,510 points)
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Maintain boundaries and make some rules to keep it secret from everyone. She should not call you and text you at odd time or when you are at home. Polygamy is surely a bad thing but there are circumstances where I would say it is okay and one should do it but you should keep in mind that your relationship with another woman should not harm anyone and give stress to your wife so if you are able to handle two women then you can continue with it. 

answered Dec 5, 2016 by alpesh kapdi (22,945 points)
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It is prohibited to discuss religion here but polygamy is a norm in some particular religion. If its not in yours then just continue the way it is.
answered Dec 6, 2016 by gr8gaur (1,840 points)

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