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What would you do if you caught your Best Friend and your Lover having Sex?

asked Nov 26, 2016 in Discussions by longhands1 (84,380 points)
edited Nov 26, 2016 by longhands1

It is been a long Time since we had a Discussion on AA.

What would you do if you caught your Best Friend and your Lover having Sex?

Best Friends share many things. All their Secrets, gossip, Time and even Money. But what if your Best Friend wanted you to share your Girlfriend or Wife? Or if the Girl wants you to share your Boyfriend or Husband? 

What would you do if one day you visit your best friend and you caught your lover there – making love? You see them entangled in bed, probably the same bed on which you’ve slept or even made love to your lover, sharing orgasms that should be yours!

What would you do? What would be your reaction? Would you :

  1. Get angry and walk out of the room
  2. Tell them you want to make it a threesome and join in
  3. Get a weapon and teach them a lesson
  4. Snap their pictures and put it on social media
  5. Walk your best friend out and settle with your lover

Lets us have your views in this situation. It may never happen to you. But what would you do, if it did?

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If that happens then I'll surely be shocked to see my lover doing it..
My first reaction ll be anger frustration. I ll surely teach them both a lesson of their life.

In my case if it happens to ny husband means I'll surely feel happy and sad at the same time. Happy because I come to know that he is not gay. Sad because I am not the one he is having sex with and try to find out the reason..
answered Nov 26, 2016 by shamitha99 (545 points)
commented Dec 7, 2016 by Silent sathya (340 points)
Well Shamitha u seem to be a bit Interesting and unique
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I will enjoy the scene,that my wife is fucked by my best friend.I will not disturb them before completing the sexual intercourse.I will never snap their pictures and  put it on social media.I will take the matter sportingly and consider it as a part of game.We have satisfactory married life,and enjoy sex with my wife.Inspite of this I have fucked eight married women including my Best friend's wife and one maid servant.So,I have no moral right to accuse my wife.However,I will request her not to do such things again.
answered Nov 26, 2016 by Motilal (8,040 points)
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First of all I would find a lonely place where in the radius of 1 km nobody can hear me cause I need to vent out my rage else some gory incident might take place.
                      Next, that'd be the last I see them both and after I had cooled down maybe in months, time to plot revenge. Ah, dont worry ! Not muder or something but just tit for tat, sex with lover's sister, friend or bestie's wife, sister and rub it in their face. Its a must for me tbh.
answered Nov 26, 2016 by gr8gaur (2,400 points)
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A very nice and important discussion is raised here by Longhand but unfortunately very less response is seen.  At least all ,member should comment on it and tell their views regarding their best frnd and lover. In this discussion we can access that our old view is changed or not.

If l see my hubby is in love or is involved in sex with best friend l can not tolerate it. I can not tolerate to share my property with any other at any cost.  I desert my best friend for ever and want to punish my hubby for this act as it is a treachery.  They both  slutter my faith.

But my experience says opposite.  My hubby's collegue, his best frnd, when regularly comes to our house, in presence n absence of my hubby, and our relationshp become so romantic that it ended with so many times sex without the knowledge of mu hubby.  I just enjoy it and never feel any type of treachery.  But after some month l feel guilty n tell everything to my hubby. Though at first he become surprised by my dual nature (as l always say him that l am not interested to do such type of bad act like sex with other but secretly l do it) but later he tell me to continue it. He says we 3 will involve and  make it more enjoyable.
I am surprised how he allowed his  own loving property, me,  to enjoy with other, his best frind. After knowing our relation, he also start loving me n his frnd very much and always want we enjoy more n more.  Is it a change in human, specially a hubby's  mind towards sex ? To get a pleasure by seeing his beloved wife involving sex with other ? What type of nature is it ? Is he a gay or cockold ?

All the members should take part in this discussion and put their views regarding this buruing issue which happen almost all families.
answered Nov 28, 2016 by nneha (325 points)
commented Dec 1, 2016 by JORDAN110894 (190 points)
i like ur views neha mam

i would b happy for my wife bcoz she is getting pleasure ,bt sad & angry bcoz she did it without consulting me. i wont have sex with any1 else bt wud allow my wife to continue it & with whomsoever she wants to sleep it. my wife's sexual satisfication & happiness is imp to me... & if she is enjoying dat, i will allow her to continue . she will love me even more & even i too
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I would definitely leave my lover if she cheated on me. If she shares a bed with anyone then it shows that she is not happy with me and she does not respect the relationship we have so I should not be in a disrespected relationship as I always believe that we should respect ourselves enough to walk away from anything that no longer severs us, makes us happy or grows us.

If she had a problem regarding anything then she should have shared it with me so we both could work on to fix it but if she chooses to cheat on me that too with my best friend then I would defiantly leave her to be with him. However, I would equally blame my best friend too for having sex with my lover and would never consider him as a friend in my life as true friend should not suppose to do it.

One of my friend’s girlfriends wanted to have sex with me and she clearly sent me hints for that but I chose friendship and declined her offer with warning that she should stay loyal to my friend. The person who values friendship and relationship would never indulge in such an act so for me it is a deal breaker situation for sure 

answered Nov 28, 2016 by alpesh kapdi (27,390 points)
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If will asses and pussies of my gf and her best freind for hours. We all remain clothless and lick each other for hours care each other body feel each other private parts.
answered Dec 3, 2016 by Gentlemanadi007 (155 points)
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I wud join my friends & do Threesome with my wife. Life is once. love her true. sex is fun. Typcally dress her sexy and fuck her one after one LOL.
answered Sep 7, 2017 by spartaking003 (105 points)
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I'll probably pick a stick and beat their ass off I wouldn't mind filming the whole scenario and put it on social by tagging their family members and love ones...
answered Sep 7, 2017 by rockstar536 (870 points)

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